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(01-01-2015, 06:22 AM)ClaraKay Wrote: [ -> ]Beneath those masculine facial gender markers, such as they are, lies a beautiful woman's face, Eva. Though I think you look good just the way you are, I also know how important it is to gain that extra bit of confidence that is needed to be completely free of the ghost that looks at us in the mirror. Good luck with your surgery. Have set a date yet?

Clara

Aw THANKS dear

Im gonna call them tomorrow but they probably wont be all up and running until next week Id think... I just have a few more questions then I'll have to give them 20% to set a date... When we talked February 11th, 12th and 24th were available dates she had... It will probably be one of those and hopefully the 11th If I can

Well here's my NYE pics... I was at the tallest building in Rapid City SD.... Its a really nice historic hotel with a killer rooftop bar and me and my GF had a great view of the fireworks



I was still in good shape here, I got WAY too wasted last night though and I cant remember going to bed... I HATE that Still paying the price

Its good to hear that the woman who does my electrolysis is finally feeling well enough to work next week after getting in a bad car wreck about a month ago

She has done a good job because six weeks after being nearly completely clear there is only maybe 4-6 hours worth of hairs to kill Of course Im not sure how fast she's gonna go now, she said she would try going for an hour and charging for 45 minutes We used to do two hours at a time....

Im looking forward to seeing her and hearing the story, I hope she's OK....

Sorry to hear about your friend and I also hope she'll be back to normal FAST!!

Now, as for you, come ON, girl!! You have some pretty descent tits, now!! SHOW those girls off!!!! Stop wearing such lose stuff that hides them!! :-) (Just trying to bolster you a bit.)

For most transsexual women, passing as a woman in everyday life is so important, and for those of us who took forever to transition, quite a challenge. Successful passing means dressing and behaving like typical women of our age group. You don't want to stand out in a crowd. That doesn't mean not accentuating your best feminine features, but it does mean not drawing attention to yourself that would have people notice the remnants of masculinity that give you away. This is the biggest difference between how transwomen and cross dresser present themselves in public. A CD always has his alternate persona to fall back on when life goes back to normal everyday. The transwoman lives with her persona 24/7.

(02-01-2015, 10:26 AM)WantAPair Wrote: [ -> ]Sorry to hear about your friend and I also hope she'll be back to normal FAST!!

Now, as for you, come ON, girl!! You have some pretty descent tits, now!! SHOW those girls off!!!! Stop wearing such lose stuff that hides them!! :-) (Just trying to bolster you a bit.)

Thanks, you know it is COLD in South Dakota this time of year

(02-01-2015, 02:30 PM)ClaraKay Wrote: [ -> ]For most transsexual women, passing as a woman in everyday life is so important, and for those of us who took forever to transition, quite a challenge. Successful passing means dressing and behaving like typical women of our age group. You don't want to stand out in a crowd. That doesn't mean not accentuating your best feminine features, but it does mean not drawing attention to yourself that would have people notice the remnants of masculinity that give you away. This is the biggest difference between how transwomen and cross dresser present themselves in public. A CD always has his alternate persona to fall back on when life goes back to normal everyday. The transwoman lives with her persona 24/7.

Getting dressed is the easy part pretty much aside from selecting the right fit to hide wider shoulders and narrower hips I cant imagine having a wardrobe like yours Clara, That NYE pic is about as fancy as I get, I cant do a dress or skirt in public... Id feel like Id attract too much attention from my peers and from the boys It might be different if I had the curves to wear a tight dress, I dont
At least most women my age dont dress up too much so its easy to blend in

Whats harder for me is interacting with the girls as a woman... I can go out anywhere and Im pretty confident my looks, manners and even my voice are there... Its just fascinating to be in a whole different world socially... I hardly worry about looks, manners or voice anymore, its more about fitting in socially... Women live in very different world and they arent the nice sweet innocent things they would like men to think they are... They can be very petty and in different ways than the boys there is a "pecking order"... Of course there is a male part of me thats also just blown away by their beauty as well and I feel like a fraud or imposter at times Its not so easy after a half a lifetime as a "dude" to just "be yourself" no matter how fem you might feel inside...

I can only hope that as I make more progress in time that I figure myself out there, become more comfortable and gain confidence and authenticity... Id like to not be so self aware all the time and just be me... There have been times Ive had to ask myself "did that all really happen, was that all real???" ... Thats when its all just effortless and its just me being me without thinking about it like anyone else.... Just another one of the girls

That's interesting, Eva, about fitting in with women as another woman. I think it's less of a problem for me because I have always gravitated to the women in any kind of social gathering. It was being a man among men that was always a problem for me in that I generally felt unsure of my masculinity. Of course, now I know why....lol.

It's very strange how powerful that preference for women's company is for me. In a group of transwomen, I'm fine. In a group of male identified CDs I'm fine, but only if I've only seen them in their female presentation and I assume their feminine personality is real. Many CDs have no hesitation about presenting as male in certain situations, but for me it changes my perception of the person to that of a man in a dress, not a woman. I respect their special place on the gender spectrum, but I can't identify with it, and it affects the way I interact with them, if I interact all.

For example, if I was still working now, as a transwoman, I would have lunch with the GGs (if they would have me), not the guys. No question about it.

Clara

(02-01-2015, 06:59 PM)ClaraKay Wrote: [ -> ]That's interesting, Eva, about fitting in with women as another woman. I think it's less of a problem for me because I have always gravitated to the women in any kind of social gathering. It was being a man among men that was always a problem for me in that I generally felt unsure of my masculinity. Of course, now I know why....lol.

It's very strange how powerful that preference for women's company is for me. In a group of transwomen, I'm fine. In a group of male identified CDs I'm fine, but only if I've only seen them in their female presentation and I assume their feminine personality is real. Many CDs have no hesitation about presenting as male in certain situations, but for me it changes my perception of the person to that of a man in a dress, not a woman. I respect their special place on the gender spectrum, but I can't identify with it, and it affects the way I interact with them, if I interact all.

For example, if I was still working now, as a transwoman, I would have lunch with the GGs (if they would have me), not the guys. No question about it.

Clara

Well were different, I was never really comfortable around women because I wasnt comfortable with myself at all as a guy... Women of course are very good at reading people and they could sense that about me... I was able to be a man among men and I did OK but inside I always felt uncomfortable inadequate and a fake, like I was hiding something and I was of course... Well guess what, its the same deal now right, "hiding something"

I am more comfortable and happier for sure living a womans life.... Problem is while my initial impression on people is very good and Im sure I "pass" by the way Im treated by them.... Its a bit harder as women I meet and interact with actually start treating me in totally new ways Ive never experienced and I feel LOST at times... I am very self conscious I guess and I hate that

Believe it or not Im very comfortable now as a woman among men... I understand men a lot more than I do women being raised as one after all... Its very comforting and validating to just be around men now because its obvious Im definitely not a man Id definitely rather work with men than women, men are simple to me and women are complex

There is practically ZERO TG "scene" here, only a few CD's I know of and only one other TS girl I dont get along with at all... I doubt Id have much involvement with that scene if there was one though... When I was just getting started it would have been a help for sure though...

As far as CD's go??? Well I used to be one so I can definitely identify with them... Technically and legally Im just REAL good at it and I CD 24/7

I personally dont see much difference between a CD and a TS, certainly some CD's go on eventually to fully transition....

(02-01-2015, 02:30 PM)ClaraKay Wrote: [ -> ]For most transsexual women, passing as a woman in everyday life is so important, and for those of us who took forever to transition, quite a challenge. Successful passing means dressing and behaving like typical women of our age group. You don't want to stand out in a crowd. That doesn't mean not accentuating your best feminine features, but it does mean not drawing attention to yourself that would have people notice the remnants of masculinity that give you away. This is the biggest difference between how transwomen and cross dresser present themselves in public. A CD always has his alternate persona to fall back on when life goes back to normal everyday. The transwoman lives with her persona 24/7.

If that was in response to me, I didn't mean it that way. I just meant that if you've if you've got `em, why not be proud of them? Enjoy them!! You wanted `em, you got `em, go ahead and show `em off! LET people know you got `em and that you ARE a girl!! :-) I know that if I could easily pass and then got a nice pair, I'd be VERY proud to show MINE off! Even if I was born a girl, I'm PRETTY sure that once I got a nice big pair, I'd be wearing tight tops a lot, at least for the first few years.
Kinda like if you get something you've always wanted for Christmas or a birthday, you want to show it off to your friends as SOON as you get it!! :-) I have NO qualms about Carla showing me her "designa vagina" as soon as she healed up from her SRS, I would've probably done the same thing, but, like I said, it WAS kinda like a boy showing off his new Tonka truck or G. I. Joe doll.