I'm a woman now even in Finnish govt systems. My social security number and gender marker got updated just minutes ago. ***Y is gone and I got only numbers to replace it. I find it weirdly symbolic how the letter of my old number was Y and its gone now.
I feel like I need a drink. This is one big step, from now on as soon as I get info updated everywhere, I will stealth in official settings too. I'm completely a woman to them from now on. And this is the last chance for people in my life to start treating me correctly, never use deadname, never misgender or talk to me like to a guy and so on. From now on I have zero tolerance to such bullshit when even the Finnish society accepts the fact that I am a woman.
So say hi to brand new "persona", Lara is now F instead of M.
I feel like I need a drink. This is one big step, from now on as soon as I get info updated everywhere, I will stealth in official settings too. I'm completely a woman to them from now on. And this is the last chance for people in my life to start treating me correctly, never use deadname, never misgender or talk to me like to a guy and so on. From now on I have zero tolerance to such bullshit when even the Finnish society accepts the fact that I am a woman.
So say hi to brand new "persona", Lara is now F instead of M.