09-10-2022, 01:58 PM
(08-10-2022, 11:43 AM)HelloDiDi Wrote: I just updated my gender marker to female. I feel like I'm woman enough to do so. Besides I'm only months away that even Finnish society treats me as a woman without question so its kinda timely. And my transition is a done deal and only a matter of time until I'm finished. I'm a bit at odds with this forum being for "genetic males" because I feel very little in common with people who identify as male in general. Besides I exhibit a whole list of possible signs of an intersex condition, I have never felt like I was truly a man anyway, pretending to be a guy who wants boobs was convenient at the time when I was still in denial about the truth.Stop putting yourself down. Your present and full form pic are gorgeous . In public you would be considered a woman . Chin up , stop doubting and strut your stuff . Self confidence is important and stop worrying about what others think
I kinda wish I could be posting on Nexus instead, but as that forum is "reserved for cis women only", I guess I'll stay here if ladies forum is based on low key trans phobia and exclusion of us with a massive hormonal birth defect which btw doesn't make me any less of a woman than anyone who was born with correct bits and doesn't need to go through this torturous pain of having a messed up body.
I've been wondering about it, Nexus does not want trans women around, but why are there exceptions to it? Or has the attitude changed since the forum split? Are we still frowned upon over there?
There are two reasons why I still post here, I have no better place to go and I promised my friends to be one of the few who has stayed despite transitioning. I'm just so much at odds with the "genetic male" stuff as I don't belong with that and Nexus not wanting anything to do with us as I guess we're not women enough? Except then there are the few exceptions... I wish I could have transitioned from the cradle so I could post on Nexus too, in every sub forum without discrimination. But I'm not valid enough.
EDIT:
I added a random selfie from yesterday... I've been taking much less photos lately. Do I look like a dude in a dress? Some kind of freak? Oddity? Chimera who's not woman enough? These are rhetoric questions of course. Interestingly, people who do not know that I'm transitioning do not clock me as such about 99% of the time. They treat me as a woman. Next spring Finnish govt information and all officials will treat me as a woman. So will healthcare, welfare office, police, post future employers. Random strangers already do. But then I'm forced to post on forum for guys who are boob growth enthusiasts? I'm fine with it as I have plenty of amazing friends here, but what if I felt that I don't belong here and wanted to discuss breast development with my sisters? Then what? Should I try and see if I'll be accepted like the very few known exceptions? Anyway, this is just flow of mind and doesn't need to be answered...