18-05-2022, 06:54 PM
(18-05-2022, 04:35 PM)Drew Wrote: I'm probably going to get banned for this but don't care 'fuck off DIDi '.
First I'm really sorry about your dog, truly I am. I don't like people very much but have never met a dog, even military attack dog who I couldn't bond with. They are true, loyal, honest, trustworthy and lovable and will never let you down or abandon you which is more than I can say for humans. So yes am very sympathetic in that sense. BUT! You don't have cancer, Russians aren't bombing you or shooting at you; you have all your fucking limbs so stop fucking whinng!!!
None of us are satisfied with our bodies, NONE OF US, male or female. Face the facts and be grateful for what you have and strive to improve but not get suicidal if it doesn't work out the way you planned.Sorry I live in an ...well not normal environment work wise and am very unsympathetic to people's feelings, have been hardened no matter how feminine I may sometimes feel. Didi I'm not attacking, critique probably? Just relax, lay back, be grateful and just don't put too much thought or effort into it.
It's not a competition its personal achievment for you and you only. This bit of my body is bad...that's so depressing. Bollocks!!!!
That's not really nice way to come say hello and long time no see.
Why would my depressive episodes, trauma, dysphoria and troubles be so not worth it? Quit whining? Are my troubles somehow not valid because you say so? Darn good my troubles are so insignificant that I'm not even supposed to talk about them... This is kind of attitude I really don't like one bit! If the entire world isn't collapsing, I'm not allowed to feel bad and vent about it? I see this lack of empathy in Finns all the time. Its either shut the fuck up and bite your lip, or that they remind like hey, things could be lot worse so you're not allowed to complain.
When I have a shitty day, I fucking vent about it and I don't care if you like it or not, my troubles may be insignificant, but they're valid. My emotional distress and mental breakdowns and tears are valid. Anyone on a forum like this get a tiny little scratch on the surface as the only communication is by text. It wont reveal all and tell all. So its kinda bad taste to judge everything by few forum posts alone.
And also, regardless of all awesome things that have happened during the last year or so, I'm very troubled and I have issues I have to deal with. Please don't downplay my problems even if it looks like dumb naive whining. Heck I'm a teenage girl fixing a 38 year old body that developed wrong, of course I'm whiny teary cringe fest some times.