28-09-2021, 06:29 PM
(28-09-2021, 05:22 PM)Drew Wrote: Am so very sorry to hear the GF left didi, I think we all know how devestating the end of a relationship can be. Concentrating on yourself is a way of breaching the dilemma but not quite. So sorry. To be honest DiDi I do think a bi genetic female would be more appropriate,somebody who would not feel threatend or overwhelmed by your transition. I'm not qualified or educated in this area but just a feeling I have. I may be very wrong. Not the best person to give relationship advice as have ended my hopes of ever finding the one but it's just something I feel from you.
Yea... Its sad as heck. We're still talking with her though, it seems she's having big time regrets. So am I, why wouldn't I, I can't switch off my feelings for her... Nor do I want to as she's nothing short of amazing. I can't be mad at her as it always takes two to tango... I'm glad she hasn't just ghosted me and disappeared and that we've been talking things through now that the first shock has settled. She wants us back, I want her back, but there's the big issue of broken trust and broken heart. But well, I guess such is life and love some times truly hurts.
And relationships are a pain in the ass to deal with, seemingly simple things are so complicated. I just feel very sad and hurt as I don't think I deserved a broken heart after doing everything as well as I could. I've been broken few times too many, but there's always super glue and bandages. <3