03-01-2019, 01:18 PM
"I am what I am" has been my motto for about 55 years and I need no other label. I have never been ashamed or embarrassed by it, even as a teenager ( although I was petrified of being caught!).
I did once describe myself as a male lesbian but that offends 'real' lesbians apparently. However it is actually the best way I can describe my true desires, a relationship with a woman as woman, but with no wish for myself to transition - go figure!! I don't find that I turn myself on, but I do like to look as feminine, attractive, and even sexy, as possible, but at the same time I am aware that it is my male half that is making that assessment.
I did once describe myself as a male lesbian but that offends 'real' lesbians apparently. However it is actually the best way I can describe my true desires, a relationship with a woman as woman, but with no wish for myself to transition - go figure!! I don't find that I turn myself on, but I do like to look as feminine, attractive, and even sexy, as possible, but at the same time I am aware that it is my male half that is making that assessment.