23-02-2013, 11:58 PM
(23-02-2013, 01:38 AM)bryony Wrote: Hi doodlebug! (I'm guessing with a name like that you must be British?)
I know what you mean, and I'm a way along in the chest department. You are going to have to come clean with your kids when they start to show (I take it your wife is in on this? If not you need her buy-in). At 60, it might be a bit easier for me to sigh and admit to old man's moobs. You also won't be able to go bare chested on the beach or swim any more. Does that matter? Are your kids past beach holiday ages?
Couple of things.
1. Chances are high that you will get beneficial effects, but watch out for an increase in anxiety. This is supposed to happen to people with normally masculinised brains at the foetal stage. (For more on this, search for Dr Ann Vitale) If you get no effect at all, it may be that you need a higher dose. I didn't get any benefit until I was on 3g / day.
Again, your wife needs to understand this. If you get her buy-in and she accepts that a better temperament comes with the cost of a larger chest, that will save a lot of upset down the line.
Thanks, Byrony. I'm not Brittish, I'm native Minnesotan. I picked the alias "Doodlebug" many moons ago - thought it sounded neat.
My wife knows EVERYTHING about me and is supportive and sympathetic. She knows this is not something I asked for and it's hard on me. We've talked about everything and she even knows I'm going to try PM to relieve the mental anguish. She doesn't however, know about the "side effect" or the NB. I want to wait and see how I respond to PM. Will it upset me physically? Will it have the desired mental effects? Will it cause the growth I hope for? If everything is good and I choose to continue using PM I'll eventually have to explain the side effects to her, wear a compression T under my golf shirts and stay covered when necessary. I hate water so that's the biggest problem out of the way.
Thanks for mentioning the anxiety I might experience. While I've been reading as much and as fast as I can, I haven't read that in any posts yet.
Funny story. Last night I got to give the NB a try. I imagine everyone does this, hense the warning on the instructions to be gentle at first but I was anxious to put C cups on myself in one useage so I sucked the H3!! out of them! Let's just say there's some tingling today and if we do anything "marital" for a while, the lights will have to be off. Ouch! Sadly, they went back to their original size rather quickly.