@Perky That myst be some heavy weight that you got off your shoulders. You've been brave and I wish you all the best.
I do not want to discuss your ability to actualy stay off NBE in the future, more or less everyone I know who tried NBE sooner or later "relapsed", but I must suggest that you should at least resist the first time the chance arises.
Let me explain and keep in mind that, although this is from my personal experience, I have seen the same pattern in other couples. Your wife probably has questions now. Transition is the obvious one, but even if you say no, society will say otherwise. At some point she will want to put you to the test, and that could be almost subconscious even from her point of view. A time will come, probably in the next couple of months, when she'll say something like "As long as they don't get bigger than mine..." or "Don't worry, I am OK, with it if you want a bit more." Or somethign along those lines. That's the test. Don't take it as an excuse to restart or to think that you can just get a larger set and then "blame" that on her. It's a way to prove if you think it's more important to be "normal" with her, or if it's more important to grow boobs.
I know that right now you are 100% convinced that you can and will stop. Hold on to that feeling and, most importantly, hold on to the feeling of relaxation to not having to hide anymore. Let things cool down and, if in the future you'll feel a strong urge to restart, look into yourself and find that "normalcy" feeling again, gauging how good that felt VS the feeling of further growth.
Good luck and enjoy this moment of bliss. I am sure your wife is as cool as it gets and you should be happy and proud to have her next to you!
I do not want to discuss your ability to actualy stay off NBE in the future, more or less everyone I know who tried NBE sooner or later "relapsed", but I must suggest that you should at least resist the first time the chance arises.
Let me explain and keep in mind that, although this is from my personal experience, I have seen the same pattern in other couples. Your wife probably has questions now. Transition is the obvious one, but even if you say no, society will say otherwise. At some point she will want to put you to the test, and that could be almost subconscious even from her point of view. A time will come, probably in the next couple of months, when she'll say something like "As long as they don't get bigger than mine..." or "Don't worry, I am OK, with it if you want a bit more." Or somethign along those lines. That's the test. Don't take it as an excuse to restart or to think that you can just get a larger set and then "blame" that on her. It's a way to prove if you think it's more important to be "normal" with her, or if it's more important to grow boobs.
I know that right now you are 100% convinced that you can and will stop. Hold on to that feeling and, most importantly, hold on to the feeling of relaxation to not having to hide anymore. Let things cool down and, if in the future you'll feel a strong urge to restart, look into yourself and find that "normalcy" feeling again, gauging how good that felt VS the feeling of further growth.
Good luck and enjoy this moment of bliss. I am sure your wife is as cool as it gets and you should be happy and proud to have her next to you!
@Shiraz, thank you! It was a huge weight off of my shoulders. It feels good to not be hiding anything from her. It feels good to have someone else knows the struggles I have.
I am a little concerned about relapsing. I told her if I relapsed on anything it would probably be growing breasts. I remind myself I accomplished what I wanted. Big enough breasts to need a bra. She hasn't said anything or showed any attention to my breasts since I told her. I have been wearing my new bras all day except for sleeping for concealment.
I was taken aback how wearing a bra daily for only a few weeks has made it hard to go braless. I tried a few days ago. My shirt fit funny, my nipples were sensitive rubbing on the shirt, I missed the support of the bra. I felt out of sorts. On the way out the door I looked in the mirror, went back to the room and put a bra on. I don't think I can go back to not wearing one. Maybe that is all I needed. Every once in while putting my bra on I have that WTF have done moment, but it passes quickly. Time will tell, but I agree. It is not going to be easy to never try to grow them bigger.
I am a little concerned about relapsing. I told her if I relapsed on anything it would probably be growing breasts. I remind myself I accomplished what I wanted. Big enough breasts to need a bra. She hasn't said anything or showed any attention to my breasts since I told her. I have been wearing my new bras all day except for sleeping for concealment.
I was taken aback how wearing a bra daily for only a few weeks has made it hard to go braless. I tried a few days ago. My shirt fit funny, my nipples were sensitive rubbing on the shirt, I missed the support of the bra. I felt out of sorts. On the way out the door I looked in the mirror, went back to the room and put a bra on. I don't think I can go back to not wearing one. Maybe that is all I needed. Every once in while putting my bra on I have that WTF have done moment, but it passes quickly. Time will tell, but I agree. It is not going to be easy to never try to grow them bigger.
This post was last modified: 24-11-2025, 11:26 PM by PerkyAcups.
I'm glad to hear you were able to talk with her and that the conversation went fairly well... Ish?
Having that weight off your shoulders must be a relief! (especially now that you have the weight from your breasts & bra! Lol)
I 100% understand what you mean about not being able to leave without wearing a bra after wearing it full time...
It feels WEIRD!!
I miss the "hug" and support!
I know it isn't the same, but when you get into a mood where you feel like growing your breasts more, could you try using thicker padding (if you're wearing a sports bra or the tanks I talked about) or the bust enhancer cups to give you a bit more lift/projection?
When my head goes there, I do that for a bit and it seems to help me get by... For now.
Having that weight off your shoulders must be a relief! (especially now that you have the weight from your breasts & bra! Lol)
I 100% understand what you mean about not being able to leave without wearing a bra after wearing it full time...
It feels WEIRD!!
I miss the "hug" and support!
I know it isn't the same, but when you get into a mood where you feel like growing your breasts more, could you try using thicker padding (if you're wearing a sports bra or the tanks I talked about) or the bust enhancer cups to give you a bit more lift/projection?
When my head goes there, I do that for a bit and it seems to help me get by... For now.
(25-11-2025, 01:08 PM)Billie88 Wrote: I know it isn't the same, but when you get into a mood where you feel like growing your breasts more, could you try using thicker padding (if you're wearing a sports bra or the tanks I talked about) or the bust enhancer cups to give you a bit more lift/projection?
When my head goes there, I do that for a bit and it seems to help me get by... For now.
@Billie88, this is a great idea. I can enjoy the breasts I have. Then some days when I am feeling in the mood, I can pad my bra for some extra size. I am going to give it a try.
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