update already.  After work today the wife mentioned it was going to be 103 degrees for the baseball tournament this weekend.  I figured that was my opportunity. I asked her if they made some kind of nipple covers I could wear. The tank tops are so hot. I didn't think I could do it all weekend.  She said they only have band aid kind that would irritate my skin. I asked if they make some sort of silicone reuseable ones. She said I needed to get an ace bandage and wrap my chest.  She said that is what girls with breasts have to do sometimes.  So, I bought an ace bandage today. Going to give that a try.  See if it is better in the heat. I am mostly glad the conversation was restarted.  If it doesn't work out, I am thinking she will help find something for me.

My wife found out about my breast pump and PM, she also found my clothing, and I explained everything, and she accepted it, she just doesn't want me to do this (pump/wear girl clothes) while she's at home.

Hi, If I read you correctly you want to stop your nipples protruding when you are out. Why not try nipple shields what lactating mothers wear, I saw some on Amazon and look good.

It has been awhile.  shortly after my last post in June my wife bought me runners nipple covers. Little round bandaids.  She said maybe those will help cover my nipples so I don't have to wear the tank tops under my shirts on hot days.  They work pretty well.  They aren't reuseable. I go through a quite a few.  

I bought some silicone nipple pasties.  I like these alot. They are reuseable.  They hide my nipples great. And gives my breasts just a little more roundness.  I can take them off when I am in the yard topless and put them back on when I ready to go out.  

Both of these hide my nipples, but I still feel like my breasts are on full display and need a little support.  The tank tops I wear under my tshirts give that little bit of support and flatten my chest.

This weekend we all went to a family reunion.  everyone spent a lot of time in the pool. Last night when we got home my wife said I was looking good in the pool. I said I was a little self-conscious about everyone seeing my chest.  She said it is fine; and that I was just getting older. She said all the other guys had gained weight and had beer bellies. She said good job keeping my figure.  I said I guess I carry my weight in my chest and not my belly like those guys.

Been a while.  No major changes with the wife.  But my breasts come up fairly often in a conversation.  I told her how painful mowing the yard was getting without a shirt.  She has been sucking on my nipples more. I told her how much i enjoyed that.  Yesterday We had been swimming in a neighbor's pool. Getting in our golf cart to go home I asked if I was okay driving without a shirt.  She replied, 'yeah, not like you have breasts.  Well, you have breasts. Not like you grew them on purpose'.  

We have been working on communication skills and opening up more.  I am close to telling her I like having breasts and need more supportive under garments.

Nice to have the wives support, she must like them if she is sucking your nipples -lucky lucky lucky

PerkyAcups - Thanks for the update!

I had a big breakthrough with my wife yesterday.  Up until this point wearing a bra was more of a kink than a necessity, but I have grown a little and feeling self-conscious in all of my shirts. I finally admitted to myself; I need a bra.  And I need my wife's support.  I decided on buying the one in the attached picture because it is advertised for guys but looks like a bra. And it has no seams, so it is invisible under my shirt.  It is similar to the bra @shirazmn recommended earlier on this thread, but a little longer. Hope to get one of those soon.  

So yesterday morning I got the nerve up to tell my wife.  I told her she can't laugh at me. I held it up and said I needed something better than those tank tops under my t-shirts.  She thought it was funny I told her not to laugh. Then she said something that really surprised me.  She said, 'I don't think that is going to pull them in enough.'  I replied, I guess we will find out today, wish me luck.  Then it got me thinking, she must be thinking my breasts are a decent size.  

I wore it all day out in public under a snug t-shirt. I know it is not a feminine looking bra, but it was great for me. Did exactly what I needed it to do. Finally, later that night I stood up and said, so what do you think?  

She looked me up and down and said, actually that bra looks really good, she was skeptical it would have enough support.  I told her I felt like I haven't looked this good in t-shirt in a long time.  How much more confident I felt.  I showed her how it was seamless so it couldn't be seen under my shirt.  She said I did look better wearing it.  She told me you can't have only one bra, go order a few more.  a little while later I told her I felt like I have a whole drawer full of shirts I can finally start wearing again.  

So I would say that was a good breakthrough with the wife.  Although it doesn't look all that much like a bra, the wife sees it as one.  We will both get used to the idea of me wearing a bra with these and maybe it will lead to more feminine bras occasionally in the future.  I feel like the door just opened up.

That's great! Does this mean you're starting back up with the NBE supplements? A little more boobage to fill out the new bras?