I want to add something, when I first reactivated this account from the beginning of my transition as at the time I was waiting on HRT. So when I came back I wanted a little bit of help, I made a few posts in a few other threads, Manues, HTs and Lotus. In two of them did I feel that there was some negativity being produce by an individual. It became a bit more prominent once I shared a picture of my chest. Though I can understand the whole oh wow boobies, it doesn't give people the right even if they are struggling to attack others who have had success.
At the time I almost left because the negativity hurt a lot, I've had issues with chasers in the past and I like to produce a shield around myself if I feel that I'm at risk of others hating me for being me. I came back after reading the positivity given from Manue, Lotus and HT here. I've thought about making my own thread by the end of the month but every time I check in on a few threads its the same person doing the same negativity and its becoming a constant warfront in these threads and I'm not sure if I'm up for exposing my own progress with NBE if what I can expect would be similar to what's happening in these Threads.
(12-07-2022, 09:43 PM)northeddy Wrote: Hope that these accounts get banned. I have come here also seeking advice and doing a lot if reading and hoping to make good judgement to help myself grow some boobs. But this last couple of weeks has just been a shit show.
I've seen all the good help and advice been given from HelloDidi, lotus, manue and several others. Then to be flamed fake and trolled.
They deserve a full ban and ip address ban to stop them from making other accounts.
Every time I come on and start reading it the same crap over and over again and it's making me think twice about coming back as its getting toxic. I'll give it another couple if weeks and hopefully it changes. We are all in this to help each other and encourage each other on our goal.
(12-07-2022, 07:58 PM)HelloDiDi Wrote: I'm asking for the admin team to do their job and apply forum rules to this kind of disruptive person who's poisoning the well.
(12-07-2022, 09:50 PM)HelloDiDi Wrote:(12-07-2022, 09:43 PM)northeddy Wrote: Hope that these accounts get banned. I have come here also seeking advice and doing a lot if reading and hoping to make good judgement to help myself grow some boobs. But this last couple of weeks has just been a shit show.
I've seen all the good help and advice been given from HelloDidi, lotus, manue and several others. Then to be flamed fake and trolled.
They deserve a full ban and ip address ban to stop them from making other accounts.
Every time I come on and start reading it the same crap over and over again and it's making me think twice about coming back as its getting toxic. I'll give it another couple if weeks and hopefully it changes. We are all in this to help each other and encourage each other on our goal.
I know several others who haven't spoken out yet who feel the same. And I bet there are more. This forum is by far the nicest and most informative spot for breast growing advice I've ever found. I don't want one or two people being allowed to shit all over the place. Also this forum has been very important for me personally during the last four years. My first peer support with my transition and bunch of friends, few who have grown to be very close to me. This forum means a lot to me and one of the reasons has been the nice peaceful atmosphere without the typical forum wars.
I want it to keep that way, I think its a huge red flag when regulars start to threaten with leaving the forum because of one disruptive person. And no, this isn't us ganging up on someone innocent, anyone with half a brain can see all that.
Also, I think being accused of being a deceitful liar is very hurtful and that's a personal level attack on my integrity. I do not take kindly of being called a liar and a faker. I'm worlds away from that.
So yea, totally agree 100% on this post above.
(13-07-2022, 08:06 AM)northeddy Wrote: I understand it's one person but it should not be tolerated. Bullying, trolling and shaming can cause insecurity and depressing and other issues why should everyone else suffer all because one person can't be kind and understanding.And it shouldn't. I find it hard to understand why is has been allowed to go on this long.
HelloDIDI, If you ever feel down and want a private chat i will always be here for you. I can see you are a strong person but we all get bad says somtimes and little vent can help loads, this also goes to anyone else that on this forum don't suffer in silence talking can help.
(13-07-2022, 08:13 AM)HelloDiDi Wrote:(13-07-2022, 08:06 AM)northeddy Wrote: I understand it's one person but it should not be tolerated. Bullying, trolling and shaming can cause insecurity and depressing and other issues why should everyone else suffer all because one person can't be kind and understanding.And it shouldn't. I find it hard to understand why is has been allowed to go on this long.
HelloDIDI, If you ever feel down and want a private chat i will always be here for you. I can see you are a strong person but we all get bad says somtimes and little vent can help loads, this also goes to anyone else that on this forum don't suffer in silence talking can help.
Yea sure, why not. Are you on Discord?
(13-07-2022, 01:52 AM)Eve M Wrote:(12-07-2022, 07:58 PM)HelloDiDi Wrote: I'm asking for the admin team to do their job and apply forum rules to this kind of disruptive person who's poisoning the well.
Every time a post by HandofFate gets reported it turns out it's already been replied to. Which makes it difficult to take any action.
(13-07-2022, 08:17 AM)HelloDiDi Wrote: not allowed to defend ourselves