(25-10-2014, 05:41 PM)ImWeird Wrote: This is more pertained to those who have a significant other whom they are keeping their breasts a secret in terms of just not informing how they are obtaining such wonderful growth and what the outcome has been...
To those who have left their s/o in the dark how are they taking to your breasts? how do they take on when you now need a bra? public?
Asking cause my gf of 2 months is in the dark, family and friends are all very very very religious and while my gf is very open minded and has accepted the feminine aspects of my character...underwear, shaving, etc, she has made known she don't care if my chest develops to breasts long as it is something i can't control and not something i do like implants.
While I know honesty is the best policy, especially when living in Illinois where I like to say often "living in the land of lincoln the best I can do is be honest as abe" unfortunately I dont see myself being able to exploit such a feature of my being. Being 28 and having a ton of the same mutual friends I know she'd leave if she knew vs getting pissed, thinking bout it, understanding, accepting like many of you have with your wives, hence why I am seeking advice and such from those who have a s/o and a secret.
Hope this isn't too much of a ramble, just my breasts are starting to develop and grow and fill in and feel its only a matter of time before the other growth occurs...nipples/aereola etc. "I'm Weird"
Not everyone is going to act the same, reading through the forum you are going to see posters that have had very supportive SO to others that are not only not supportive, but if the poster cannot control their GID, then separation is in order.
I would not expect any difference from when your girlfriend or wife realizes that your chest growth is your own doing, not a hormone imbalance out side of your control.
Your options are going to be.
1) Come clean now and hope that she is understanding.
2) Keep on going as you are and hope for the best.
My SO has already made is quite clear she has no intention of living or sleeping with another girl.
Your mileage may vary, but you might want to get your self ready now.