(08-05-2014, 05:56 AM)Connie5 Wrote: I just wanted to say hi every one I come around here a lot and just read everyone experiences and i'm happy everybody is not giving up on there dreams. I'm still taking pm I have some more progress I will post soon. I'm getting more interested in hrt . But I keep hearing good and bad things about it. I also think transgender people are getting a bad reputation because of all the shemales out there that are pushing sex way to much.
I have to tell you pm decreases my sex drive a lot. All the anal sex and strong sexual feelings they try to push it's so misleading that I think I can see how people can get the wrong idea. I just wanted to share that with everybody here.
To many web sights are pushing hypnosis and sex way to much I just wanted to know what everyone thought about that and how they felt about it also
Thanks again for stopping by.
Hi Connie good to see your still here and things are going good for you
I agree with you on that, there is SO much more to this than sex...
In fact the farther this goes for me the less sex has anything to do with it......
They make us all out to be just a bunch of perverts when thats actually very far from the truth... All the porn does not help much to make "normal" people understand....
When the T was much higher the drive was higher along with all the "deviant" sexual urges... When the T is gone or much lower its all so much different...
"Normal" people have normal hormones working on them and they also have a lot of hang ups and repressed things going on their heads they will never admit to or even deal with that shapes their judgement of us...
What they cant understand is we have fully accepted ourselves and thrown out and rejected all the guilt and shame and crap and live life as our true selves... I takes a STRONG person to do that and some "normal" people do get that... It is getting better these days though I think...
I think a lot of people consciously or not are scared of parts of themselves that can totally identify with trans people but they are too messed up in the head or not strong enough to accept themselves as themselves...
Those are my thoughts on your excellent observation and question...
All the best to you