So far Id have to say its been finding our local BDSM group and going to my first monthly "munch" in best dress and black knee high leather boots
The munch is just a totally "vanilla" meeting where they get together at a restaurant and socialize... Afterwards there is a "play party" where some get together and they have "scenes"....
At my first munch I was very well received by EVERYONE and I was the only "tranny" there...
I ended up going to a local bar with two submissive girls and their "dom men", I was treated just like one of the girls and it was GREAT!!!
As the men played pool I joined in with the ladies in a VERY interesting conversation about how they like to be tied up and what not after we had some general get to know each other chit chat...
I cannot wait to go again it is great to be accepted by "normal" non TG people who just happen to be extremely kinky