12-12-2013, 02:57 PM
Well, I must say I saw this coming. Doodle I am sorry to see you go, but I understand, and I sympathize. I have been coming here for a long time, and I have seen many users participate heavily for a period and then fade out. I always figured it was that for some they were just dabbling and grew out of it. For others, I was sure their journey took them further into the transgender world than this forum could assist with. But the overall nature of the forum remained the same. Until recently. I always felt this was a place for genetic males to begin first steps toward experiencing some degree of change toward a feminine side. It was social, friendly and supportive. Recently, I feel the forum has been over run with members who seem only interested in a more masculine form of sexual titilation. Porn and sex jokes, essentially. While I have no problem with porn, per se, it is not why I come here. There are plenty of places specifically devoted to that on the web. Frankly, I now skip postings by many newer members simply because I don't want to read that kind of thing here. I don't plan to stop coming here, but, without telling anyone what to do, I do miss the old days. A large part of coming here for me was to come to a place where I could get away from "guy" stuff, and that option seems to be disappearing here. It makes me sad.

