[SarahSchilling]

I’m not sure anyone is left here who might feel the same as I do but this forum has gone to hell in a hand basket. It sounds and looks like a men’s locker room around here – a place I most certainly don’t feel like I belong. I long for the days when we discussed serious topics. When people put thought into a single, thorough response and took the time to check spelling and punctuation. I miss being able to come here and share something that’s on my heart and get helpful feedback or provide encouragement for someone who was struggling with something. I miss the days when I actually wanted to read all the threads because there was something good in all of them. Frankly it’s a rarity now to find anything worthwhile at all. I used to be able to have the forum up on my screen and only have to hide the words “Breast Nexus” at the top of the page. Now I can’t open anything without pornographic profile pics jumping off the screen at me (and whoever happens to glance over my shoulder). I wouldn’t want my male buddies to see that let alone my wife or kids and CERTAINLY wouldn’t want anyone to read what’s being written if I had any hope of them understanding GID.

So with much disappointment, I’m going to take leave of this forum for a while. Hopefully things get back to the way they used to be. If there’s any of the old regulars here anymore who feel the same as I do, please send me an email if things get back to decency and support again. …I think I’ll go wash my eyes with soap and water now and pray for memory loss to forget what I’ve read here lately.

Aww, that sucks doodlebug. I kinda had a feeling this was coming after one thread in particular though. Like I just had a thought, " I don't think doodle is going to like this!"

I know exactly what you mean about the male locker room vibe, but, thankfully, I don't get offended that easily.

Sorry for any contribution to your misery that I may have made by mistake. Take care either way! I'll miss ya a little bit in an online kinda way. (I'd tell ya to hang around, but that seems selfish)

Actually, screw that. Just click on the names of the few people who offend you, look to the bottom of page, add them to your IGNORE list. It works, I just tested it. Doesn't even show a profile pic for them afterwards, much less the content of their posts(neither of which bother me, I'm just trying to be helpful).You shouldn't let the minority ruin your experience here if they offend you to this degree. But, hey, it's your choice....