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I can't see giving out my skype address because my computer is shared by the family. Not appropriate. Make it cloak-and-dagger. Pick an uncommon clothing item or accessory for all to wear or carry. Maybe a baseball cap of a particular colour? Something everyone would be likely to have. No, I won't show up in a bikini or skirt and heels. Just scheduling such a thing might be tough the closer we get to the festive season.