With fear and trepidation, I ask the following:
Would you ever be willing to meet someone, from this forum, in person, in a public setting, if you happened to live close to them or happened to be passing through their area? Or, would you be willing to text message or talk directly via phone?
This forum has been a God send for me, but if there was someone that has "this" and perhaps a few other things in common with me, I think it would be a shame not to, "up the level of connectedness" a little. For that reason, I'd be willing to meet or exchange phone numbers. That said, there are only maybe a dozen people I'd trust or are interested enough in right now to do that with. I suspect I'm in the minority on this one. How about you?
Doodle,
Yes that could be beneficial for many
You just have to be so 100% sure you dont link up with a nutter or the rather clever troll that is still stalking here
Julie
I mean on this end of our forum we are mostly males or started out males that wanted breasts for different reasons.
We have shared innermost secrets with one another and even posted our
progress, given as well as taken advise.
In my mind that makes us a pretty close group. (slightly unusual granted)
I would not mind meeting one another I mean there is not much for me to hide
from you all you have not already seen lol.
That's so thoughtful,wish more people had those kind of values these days.
(03-10-2013, 05:48 PM)julieTG Wrote: [ -> ]Doodle,
You just have to be so 100% sure you dont link up with a nutter or the rather clever troll that is still stalking here
Julie
Yeah I know. That's why I said there are only a dozen or so who I'd be comfortable increasing my proximity to at the moment. ...Maybe more than that but I'd want to have some sort of "online familiarity" before handing out my city, name and phone number. Sometimes (like today) I just want to have a "girls" night out with some good friends who know what it's like to be me. I wouldn't expect NBE to consume the conversation or even group hugs - just good conversation, food and perhaps a drink or two. ...On second thought, the way I'm feeling today (kinda of melancholy), I might get a little misty eyed at the end and want a hug before we went our separate ways. Maybe that's why I hanging around here so much today.
I am so early in the process that I doubt I have much useful advice for others. I do find the idea interesting, however.
(03-10-2013, 05:31 PM)doodlebug2055 Wrote: [ -> ]With fear and trepidation, I ask the following:
Would you ever be willing to meet someone, from this forum, in person, in a public setting, if you happened to live close to them or happened to be passing through their area? Or, would you be willing to text message or talk directly via phone?
This forum has been a God send for me, but if there was someone that has "this" and perhaps a few other things in common with me, I think it would be a shame not to, "up the level of connectedness" a little. For that reason, I'd be willing to meet or exchange phone numbers. That said, there are only maybe a dozen people I'd trust or are interested enough in right now to do that with. I suspect I'm in the minority on this one. How about you?
Yeah! That'd be nice to have a breast friend nearby!
Nothing wrong with hugs, group or singular.
(03-10-2013, 05:31 PM)doodlebug2055 Wrote: [ -> ]With fear and trepidation, I ask the following:
Would you ever be willing to meet someone, from this forum, in person, in a public setting, if you happened to live close to them or happened to be passing through their area? Or, would you be willing to text message or talk directly via phone?
Yes, I would like to meet others on this forum.
I think text messaging would be a good start for me. For those worried about sharing their phone number, one option would be to sign up for Google Voice. There's no charge to do so and you can text for free.
(03-10-2013, 05:48 PM)julieTG Wrote: [ -> ]You just have to be so 100% sure you dont link up with a nutter or the rather clever troll that is still stalking here
Perhaps communicating via webcam using Skype first would help mitigate the risk of meeting a psycho or a troll?
I've thought for some time that would probably be an interesting thing to do, at least once. There isn't a need for home addresses or phone numbers for such a thing. I think most are in hiding deep enough they would not come out for it, even if enough of us were in close enough proximity to each other to make it realistic. But for my two cents, I would suggest a city to meet in gets nominated. Show of hands would tell you if enough people can make that, or would be willing to get there. Then you nominate a date and time, and a specific location like a restaurant or something. If you can hash your way through that, then you have a chance of it actually happening. No-one has to provide any personal details they don't need to and can still share that in person if they want to. I for one would consider it if the city was Toronto, or somewhere close to there. As for the troll showing up, or notifying others, well, hopefully they don't live there. If they do and they show up, we can beat them up.