[Marina Kits]

Hey Flame, I'm not positive but it sounds like you're thinking breasts and the mind we have is a drawback to finding a companion because it's fair to think it's a turn off for most women. While that MAY be true, I think having a "mind like ours" is a real asset when seeking a companion - that goes for most of us here by the way. When I compare myself to other guys out there, I can tell I'm much more emotional / relational / connected / loving etc with my wife. If a girl gives you any chance at all, and she's gotten to know a few guys before so she has a little maturity, she might pick up on your more feminine attributes and find them to be a rather refreshing alternative to the jocks, neanderthals and narcissists she could find ogling her anywhere. You might not be able to compete with them on some levels but in other ways you have them beat handily. I'm a firm believer that there's someone for everyone; whenever you're ready.