[Marina Kits]

Please don't take the following as any form of negative criticism, because I do understand how difficult it all is.

I really do recommend being up front with her [your wife].

It's all good. I appreciate the candor because I know your intentions are good.

Just for further clarification, I'd like to say that while I came here thinking only about feminizing myself, I quickly learned that I might be able to put an band aid (PM), so-to-speak, on my problem and live comfortably in my own body. To me, finding peace in my masculinity trumps the breast augmentation several times over. That's why I haven't discussed the possible impact on my breasts with my wife. If PM gives me some relief, I'll talk to her about what will likely happen to my breasts with continued use of PM. If I get no relief in 3-4 months, I think I will probably stop taking it. And without question, if down the road I want to take PM only for it's feminizing effects, I will absolutely get the blessing of my wife first. Your comments have convicted me however, that I need to put the NB away unless I have a talk with her.

Last night I was amazed to find an old thread (http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=9958&highlight=mass) ...a sort of survey where responders answered a dozen questions including, "how does your spouse or SO feel about your breast augmentation?" I couldn't believe how many wives were OK with it. It eased my concerns that my wife would react negatively to it. I hope I can find the thread again.

I really do appreciate your advise Byrony. Please don't hesitate to to speak your mind with me.