[hoselover]

I guessed, from your post, that you are from the US. The UK is a very different place. All too often we feel a communality, with th US, because of a common language, whereas we have much more in common, with other, North European countries. I am frequently clocked as being male and have not yet developed a female voice. My restaurant is a high profile business and my aim is to be recognised as the best restaurant, in town. I really have no choice, other than to be open and that appears to be working.

Hi Chrissie, I understand you have a restaurant in the UK? Where if I may ask. I visited London on regular base a few years ago for work. I have once been to that hotel / bar for transsexuals and transvestites. Did not had the opportunity to go en femme myself but spoke to some wonderful ladies. Altough we have a lot of possibilities in Holland the opportunity to visit incognito a bar / hotel like that was great.

Good you came out. I never had the chance to really come out as transvestite (I am not transsexual, probably a bit transgender). It does not really bother me although a number of things had been easier it I did it (when I was younger). But it all started before somebody ever heard of internet so in my younger years I thought I was the only one who liked to wear womens clothes.