16-01-2021, 05:27 PM
Only you can answer that question. I think the thing to consider is ‘why?’ - both ‘why do I want these changes?’ and also ‘why do I have such a strong reaction to taking the first step?’
Every one’s answer to the questions are different, but I notice there seem to be two main reasons people pursue NBE: wanting to change to become more like what they feel on the inside, or wanting to change because it is exciting, a fetish, etc.
Both are perfectly great reasons, and totally healthy. It just depends on what motivates you, and being honest with yourself about who you are and what drives you.
I would second Bobbi’s suggestion - a mental health professional can help you to unpack some of your own experiences and motivations so you can better understand the answers to ‘why?’ If you’re feeling a lot of shame about your desires, counseling/therapy is going to be a big help in finding happiness no matter what decision you make.
There are many paths that can lead you to feeling at peace with your body and mind: NBE is just one of them.
Good luck on your journey.
Every one’s answer to the questions are different, but I notice there seem to be two main reasons people pursue NBE: wanting to change to become more like what they feel on the inside, or wanting to change because it is exciting, a fetish, etc.
Both are perfectly great reasons, and totally healthy. It just depends on what motivates you, and being honest with yourself about who you are and what drives you.
I would second Bobbi’s suggestion - a mental health professional can help you to unpack some of your own experiences and motivations so you can better understand the answers to ‘why?’ If you’re feeling a lot of shame about your desires, counseling/therapy is going to be a big help in finding happiness no matter what decision you make.
There are many paths that can lead you to feeling at peace with your body and mind: NBE is just one of them.
Good luck on your journey.