[GoneGirl]

Ps I feel so much better coming clean with her about my feeling it was hard but I believe in the long run our relationship will get stronger.

That's how I felt, too. It removed all the guilt and shame I felt before about cross dressing, wanting boobs, etc., and our relationship has improved so much.

I would caution, though, to go very slowly from here on. Don't take her apparent acceptance for granted. Once you feel the joy of expressing your female identity, it's easy to get caught up in the excitement and euphoria. It can be overwhelming for your wife (and you, too).

My guess is that my wife loves me enough to overlook this 'foible' of mine. She's even willing to support my needs to great extent. She has seen good things come of my cross gender transition -- in particular, the improvement in our relationship. Still, I get the feeling that she would not object if I reverted back to all-male presentation. It helps to keep in mind that transgenderism is still a social taboo, and more often than not puts a strain on one's personal relationships at home, at work, and in one's social life.

Having raised that yellow flag, I'm glad that things are moving in the right direction for you, Andrea. It's a very good sign.

Clara