22-03-2014, 12:25 PM
Hello Andrea.
I think Samantha offered some excellent advice. If she's still blaming herself for your feelings, I suggest gently reminding her this is not the case. Even though I'm single, I imagine having a SO who accepts you fully is a significant relief and a huge blessing. Be sure to let her know how you feel. If you're not already, I recommend letting her know how much you love and how great of an SO she is, whether it's through words of affirmations, kind deeds, or physical affection.
I think Samantha offered some excellent advice. If she's still blaming herself for your feelings, I suggest gently reminding her this is not the case. Even though I'm single, I imagine having a SO who accepts you fully is a significant relief and a huge blessing. Be sure to let her know how you feel. If you're not already, I recommend letting her know how much you love and how great of an SO she is, whether it's through words of affirmations, kind deeds, or physical affection.