21-03-2014, 07:25 AM
(20-03-2014, 07:46 PM)andrea23 Wrote: After coming out to my wife things were ok at first until i think the shock set in to her. We had a tough time for a little bit she came pretty close to leaving me at one point but we managed to get through the initial bolt and run phase and we talked alot about things, and today we had a break through and agreed to take things one small step at a time and see how things go. I have called yesterday and made my appointment with the physiologist to talk about my inner turmoil and figure things out.
I know this must be tough on her and she is amazing in my eyes. The tough thing to get though was her blaming herself for the feelings.
Just curious has anyone already gone through what i am going through already and have any insight for it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
... for me it was simpler, im a PHD and an intellect I knew this was coming so i groomed her well in advanced .. the problem arises when you do not groom, as human beings we are not good at taking surprises, sadly all the idiots who claim to support transgenders talk about the point of "coming out" of some crap like that.. that simply doesn't work and creates more problems ..
You have to understand that while we are a unique people we must not try to achieve our freedom without proper intellectual understanding and study of a lot of areas ..
This reminds me i must open a thread or a wall or a blog or some stuff to divulge this knowledge to all so that many can benefit.
Your have to hope that this doesn't get rougher, that's all i can or any professional say to you