12-02-2014, 05:26 PM
ClaraKay, your reply is not discouraging at all! Like the others it is honest, heartfelt and practical!
To let you know where I stand! I have known since from when I can remember that I was "wrong"! Family was hugely traditional, and I went to an all boys school....being different was not an option.
I suppressed everything, played the part, 20 years in the military, kids, and now another male dominated career. Have I thought about "changing" before.....yes, for the last 30 years. I can no longer just do nothing....time moves on, and I genuinely believe for my own sanity that I have no option.
To answer the question that might appear....I am keeping this to myself at the moment. Where I will end up...I do not know!
Hugs to all
Jan
To let you know where I stand! I have known since from when I can remember that I was "wrong"! Family was hugely traditional, and I went to an all boys school....being different was not an option.
I suppressed everything, played the part, 20 years in the military, kids, and now another male dominated career. Have I thought about "changing" before.....yes, for the last 30 years. I can no longer just do nothing....time moves on, and I genuinely believe for my own sanity that I have no option.
To answer the question that might appear....I am keeping this to myself at the moment. Where I will end up...I do not know!
Hugs to all
Jan

