As I have said before, I grew breasts as a fetish. I have kept this a secret from everyone. In the beginning it was the rush of fear and excitement risking taking PM knowing I could possibly grow permanent breasts. As they began growing the fetish grew into wanting them bigger and harder to hide. I accomplished both of those and love my breasts now. Still wish they were just a little bigger.
Unfortunately, I have many other fetishes and realized I needed help. I have been seeing a therapist for sex addiction and going to meetings and the whole deal. Let me say, telling her i grew breasts was so hard!! I have a five-page list of secrets that have accumulated over two decades. Some really embarrassing stuff that I have kept secret for 20 years. I am about to have to sit down and read that list to my wife. I am nervous to tell her these things. Scared to think another person will know all these things I have fought so hard to keep secret.
Telling her I purposely grew female breasts and like having breasts is the one thing on the list that scares me the most. She has continued to become more supportive of my breasts, but I am nervous how she will react when she finds out I gave myself real breasts.
The anxiety has kept me up at night. Playing in head scenarios that may happen. I am sure she will be upset. I hope she will continue to be supportive. I would be excited if now her knowing these really are breasts and I like them that it will take us to a new level. I am scared she is going to have you did it to yourself you deal with it attitude.
Unfortunately, I have many other fetishes and realized I needed help. I have been seeing a therapist for sex addiction and going to meetings and the whole deal. Let me say, telling her i grew breasts was so hard!! I have a five-page list of secrets that have accumulated over two decades. Some really embarrassing stuff that I have kept secret for 20 years. I am about to have to sit down and read that list to my wife. I am nervous to tell her these things. Scared to think another person will know all these things I have fought so hard to keep secret.
Telling her I purposely grew female breasts and like having breasts is the one thing on the list that scares me the most. She has continued to become more supportive of my breasts, but I am nervous how she will react when she finds out I gave myself real breasts.
The anxiety has kept me up at night. Playing in head scenarios that may happen. I am sure she will be upset. I hope she will continue to be supportive. I would be excited if now her knowing these really are breasts and I like them that it will take us to a new level. I am scared she is going to have you did it to yourself you deal with it attitude.
This post was last modified: 6 hours ago by PerkyAcups.
I think the point here is obvious, its not about growing boobs as muchas it is about lack of communication. Massive list of secrets because you've been unable to talk about your kinks is a burden. Its none of my business, but how old are you? Because to me this sounds like a typical issue of many older guys.
In a relationship, communication is the key to everything. How can you build love and trust to someone if you don't really even know them? Having some topics which are off limits with spouses is one thing, I guess that happens to almost any one, but its not the same as keeping a huge list of things as a secret. Like how I have certain kinks I will not discuss here and not even with my partners as I know they're not into the same stuff. I think that's totally fine, its about preferences.
What I've learned in life, especially last around five years is that openness and communication makes massive leaps in making life better. Believe me I've done a lot of very difficult discussions and "confessed" so much, starting from who and what I am, my transition needs, the fact that I'm polyamorous and its the best way to exist for me, about sexuality and kinks, talking about it all without restrains is difficult at first but its so rewarding. Even if it results into a breakup, too many people stick with incompatible partners and too many can't work around issues which are guaranteed to happen because people aren't simple.
The breast growing thing you have to just explain the way it is. Growing them for fetish reasons shouldn't be seen as something inherintly "evil" immoral bad what ever, its your body and your choices. Maybe you should emphasize how having breasts has made you feel more comfortable in you body? Even when its a kink, it shouldn't be a massive problem to anyone, its not hurting anybody so why bother? Besides there are plenty of men sporting some kind of moobs for plethora of reasons and some have actual boobs too. I think breasts in general should not be sexualised and fetishised at all, there's nothing strange about them, they're a frigging baby feeling fat filled meat sacks hanging on peoples chest, who cares if its a man or a woman because everybody has a fucking chest and nipples and everybody has potential to grow them into a functional baby feeding devices.
Btw, the hypersexualisation and objectification of breasts is largely mens problem. I think men should change their thinking about it, and all chests should be just normal body part which every living human has. Conquering this problem starts in our own lives. I hope your wife understands its not a problem that some guys have boobs, few grow them on purpose and its not hurting anybody.
In a relationship, communication is the key to everything. How can you build love and trust to someone if you don't really even know them? Having some topics which are off limits with spouses is one thing, I guess that happens to almost any one, but its not the same as keeping a huge list of things as a secret. Like how I have certain kinks I will not discuss here and not even with my partners as I know they're not into the same stuff. I think that's totally fine, its about preferences.
What I've learned in life, especially last around five years is that openness and communication makes massive leaps in making life better. Believe me I've done a lot of very difficult discussions and "confessed" so much, starting from who and what I am, my transition needs, the fact that I'm polyamorous and its the best way to exist for me, about sexuality and kinks, talking about it all without restrains is difficult at first but its so rewarding. Even if it results into a breakup, too many people stick with incompatible partners and too many can't work around issues which are guaranteed to happen because people aren't simple.
The breast growing thing you have to just explain the way it is. Growing them for fetish reasons shouldn't be seen as something inherintly "evil" immoral bad what ever, its your body and your choices. Maybe you should emphasize how having breasts has made you feel more comfortable in you body? Even when its a kink, it shouldn't be a massive problem to anyone, its not hurting anybody so why bother? Besides there are plenty of men sporting some kind of moobs for plethora of reasons and some have actual boobs too. I think breasts in general should not be sexualised and fetishised at all, there's nothing strange about them, they're a frigging baby feeling fat filled meat sacks hanging on peoples chest, who cares if its a man or a woman because everybody has a fucking chest and nipples and everybody has potential to grow them into a functional baby feeding devices.
Btw, the hypersexualisation and objectification of breasts is largely mens problem. I think men should change their thinking about it, and all chests should be just normal body part which every living human has. Conquering this problem starts in our own lives. I hope your wife understands its not a problem that some guys have boobs, few grow them on purpose and its not hurting anybody.
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