(29-05-2021, 09:47 AM)HelloDiDi Wrote: Speaking about muscles... I think about half of me has melted away in the last +1 year. The other day I was digging through my old pics from the time I worked out a lot, I got ropes for arms compared to that time. And they're still too big. So yea, lack of heavy exercise + herbs definitely does its thing, so guys wanting to keep all that bulk around, be careful.
I would say the way to do that is to take breaks from the herbs and pay special attention on working out and exercising a lot, how much more than usual is another question of course. I don't think moderate dose of pm alone would do a huge loss of muscle mass if done right. I did it like that for a while, but it didn't last long. Unsurprisingly.
Btw, I tapped my finger on the thing that irks me about this thread. Its the listing of things that are perceived to be masculine traits. As a lot of that is more or less bs as those traits, one or more, are not only a man's thing. We're all individuals after all... Ton of so called masculine traits are cultural stereotypes. If I would make a list of my hobbies and passions, you couldn't tell that I'm a woman except from couple of things, from the pov in which the stereotypes are what defines gender. And doing that assumes there are things that only men or women can do or be interested in which is total bovine excrement. If these dumb as a doorstop stereotypes held true, there should not be women doing martial arts, or be cops or soldiers or fireMEN and the list goes on... How about female hunters?
I'm just thinking... Why there is a need for this thread to exist in the first place? What does it matter who wants to stay male and who's transitioning? Oh yea, those who transition aren't actually even changing themselves, I've been me all my life, just coming out with it all and acting upon it at this time as it hasn't been acceptable before. So yea, what does this stuff matter?
What we all have in common is boobs, everything else boils down to individual differences. " alt="" title=""> I don't get why there is a need to make a divide here. Everyone is on BN for the same reason.
Well, to be honest I think the only problem would be thinking that there's a need to make a divide here. As in thinking about it in a negative way. This thread exists and I created it because, yes, we have the boob topic in common, and for that we have the whole forum here. But this thread is an attempt to find people who also share some of those other individual differences that you talk about, apart from the boobs. There's nothing wrong with that. So there's no reason to get offended. Would a thread created by someone who's looking for people that are feeling specially femenine cause you any doubts or discomfort? I don't think so. And you would think that it's not surprising because we are in a breast growth forum, right? So breasts are only for femenine men and females, basically? Because that's the end conclusion with that kind of mindset... And it's not right. I'm so tired of seeing posts here and everywhere with people saying: ''you should shave that chest, honey'' ''By the way, use this epilator, works great'' and all that. Did they even ask him first what he likes? No, they didn't. Because breasts must be smooth and femenine, don't they? ''It's always been like that and everyone thinks that'' Well, no. It's just an example (which does happen though), but you get the idea.
There's always groups, and groups inside those groups. There's nothing wrong with people gathering if there's respect between everyone.
I love my breast and hope to grow them even bigger, but I am not interested in cross-dressing or feminization. My breasts and nipples are very sensitive and afford me a lot of physical pleasure.
(13-03-2021, 03:05 PM)Mike_Chest Wrote:Hello everyone, hope you are all doing great,
I've been looking into the forum and I was wondering if there's any men here into growing their breasts but not only staying male but acting like a cis man. So men who are not into crossdressing or similar. Just men who like or would like to have breasts, keeping everything else as it is. It seems like this specific group is not very active on the forum. Maybe just lurking around or maybe I'm the only one...? I would just like to make some new contacts with the same interests. If it's one of you and you don't want to post a reply just private message me.
And to everyone who reads this: have an awesome day " alt="" title="">
I have AGP/autogynephilia, the fetish of seeing myself as a woman which inserted itself into my psyche somewhere in teenage years without the help of any "sissy" stuff that's around these days. Frankly from what I have seen online it seems like most people with this deal with it their whole lives whether they transition or not. However even when not aroused I do still love wearing say some tight flattering womens jeans, pantyhose, tight top and cute boots. Even when I'm not fully under the grips of an AGP "episode" I love looking in the mirror and seeing boobs protruding a little or my butt filling some cute jeans.
It is overpowering, very sexual and can take over my mind for weeks. I can "lean in" to it, take hormones, shave, lose weight, beautify myself and enjoy it a lot. I can try to ignore it....lift weights for a while, try to exaggerate masculine behavior, tell myself that is who I am. Completely ignoring my girl side just makes it come out intensely later. It's obvious my girl/AGP side is here to stay for good, I will never be able to ignore it at least not for long.
Do I want to be a woman? Well no, not really. I wouldn't say I have body dysphoria, but seeing myself in the mirror does make me want to feminize more. Closest thing I can think of is something like a "femboy". Cute but you can still go boymode for convenience sometimes.
Kind of puts you between a rock and a hard place. Trans community mostly doesn't want anything to do with AGPs, they see the AGP theory as invalidating their own identity (personally I think both can exist without one invalidating the other). Normals if they knew my desires would just think I'm a freak too.
Being trans isn't easy, being AGP isn't easy.....we all have our battles.
(28-10-2021, 02:06 AM)Phanatic Wrote:I have AGP/autogynephilia, the fetish of seeing myself as a woman
(28-10-2021, 06:57 PM)PleasantlyFascinated Wrote: My AGP is for me alone. I'd share with the wife if she were interested, but she isn't. I wouldn't dare to, or care to, entertain presenting in any way femme in public, unless a long blonde braid is a giveaway. The LGBT crowd might interest me somewhat, if I were a more social animal. But I expect I'd be a misfit there in any case. Rewired self to identify with female role sexually. Somehow eases the stress of having no female playmates. Yet can not formulate any circumstances under which I'd be attracted to a guy.Well am still a bit clueless at what AGP really means as in what it stands for but am not stupid so think I'm getting it a bit. LGBT ???? Now I really do feel naive and stupid I honestly don't know what these things are.
Loner.
(28-10-2021, 08:24 PM)Drew Wrote:(28-10-2021, 06:57 PM)PleasantlyFascinated Wrote: My AGP is for me alone. I'd share with the wife if she were interested, but she isn't. I wouldn't dare to, or care to, entertain presenting in any way femme in public, unless a long blonde braid is a giveaway. The LGBT crowd might interest me somewhat, if I were a more social animal. But I expect I'd be a misfit there in any case. Rewired self to identify with female role sexually. Somehow eases the stress of having no female playmates. Yet can not formulate any circumstances under which I'd be attracted to a guy.Well am still a bit clueless at what AGP really means as in what it stands for but am not stupid so think I'm getting it a bit. LGBT ???? Now I really do feel naive and stupid I honestly don't know what these things are.
Loner.