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(17-12-2019, 09:26 PM)debbieTV Wrote:(17-12-2019, 08:28 PM)Femman Wrote: Bonjour à tous! Je suis un mari et un père de 41 ans. Je suis sur mon chemin de croissance depuis quelques années, mais à cause des finances, juste de temps en temps. Je veux voir dans quelle mesure je peux changer mon corps sans perdre la fonctionnalité. J'ai moins que zéro envie d'aller "jusqu'au bout". Je suis très heureuse de rester masculin et d'avoir un corps féminin, autant que je peux atteindre. J'ai beaucoup de chance dans ma situation que ma femme soit en fait la seule à me convaincre que si c'est quelque chose que je veux, alors je devrais y aller, tant qu'elle obtient ce qu'elle veut de moi dans la chambre. Tant que je peux jouer, elle n'a aucun problème à me laisser aller aussi loin que possible. Je suis tellement reconnaissante de ne pas avoir à cacher mes seins ou à inventer des histoires pour expliquer pourquoi ils sont là.pourquoi ne pas mettre des photos c'est une façon de les montrer ne serait-ce qu'à cette communauté
Les autres personnes de ma région, cependant, sont très fermées, donc la furtivité est un mode de vie pour moi. Ma femme le préfère de cette façon car c'est "notre petit? Secret". Ils ne sont pas très apparents si je porte la bonne combinaison de vêtements, mais j'aimerais pouvoir parfois les montrer. Je suis très fier de ce que j'ai pu réaliser. Même si je n'aime pas les cacher parfois, je suis super contente que ma femme n'en fasse pas partie.
Quelques articles précédents m'ont fait penser à la prochaine fois que je verrai un professionnel de la santé. Je ne vais certainement pas mentir ou tourner autour du pot. Je veux ce que je veux et f ** k ce que les autres pensent. Je suis content de ce que je fais à mon corps et je n'ai vraiment qu'un regret dans tout ça. J'aimerais avoir commencé plus tôt.
I have not written a personal update in a while, so here we go.
I am using this weird time of lockdown to push some boundaries. I started wearing bras daily under my tshirts and hoodies (I a still a bit self conscious of wearing them only under a tshirt when out in the garden), and also women's jeans and _" wedge boots at home. My son is 3 and he's too young to notice or to think that something is odd, and the wife (who doesn't know about boob growth) has said that it's not a problem for her.
This gave me the confidence to wear my bra even to go shopping with a sweater on, where straps could be visible.
I recently added (and finished a bottle of) progesterone cream and I am still taking 500mg/day of PM. I will write a post in my progress thread about this but the point is that things have grown a bit. I have lost a bit of weight so the shape of my chest is less pointy and that, plus PM and progesterone, has made the shape of my boobs round up. My left nipple (right boob is a late bloomer) point "out and up" which is unusual on a man's chest. I also have a crease under the breasts.
My wife has not commented on size or shape but I know that all my t-shirts tent in the wrong places. With and without bras. I am not looking forward to going back to work at the office both both for the fact that I'll have to stop wearing bras and the fact that my boobs may be more obvious than when my colleagues last saw me. Before the lockdown my testosterone was driving my fetish mind crazy and I actually wore sports bras to work, but it was still winter and I had several layers on top and I am not ready to do it again any time soon.
Anyway, as far as family life goes, so far so good. Nipple play has become an important part of my lovemaking with my wife and she uses it as a "weapon" to make me edge whenever she wants.
Let's see how things evolve in the next few months.
Sorry if I write in English. I can read French but I can't write in that language. I hope you can translate this message.
One of the topics that have been discussed the longest on this website, in many forms, is how normal/abnormal/right/wrong it os for a man to want some feminine traits, particularly breasts.
The reality is that feminine straight men exist and have always existed. What we all here try to become is nothing new. What's new with us is that we try to achieve something that other men move away from. Society says that a man can't be feminine or he is not a man, so man with breasts do surgeries yo remove them and look less like a woman so society will take them more seriously as men. I think that, in this part of the forum "males staying males" we all understand that there is more to being a man than just having a flat and muscular chest.
A lot of our family experiences rotate on the need to convince our wives and families of the same thing. You can be a man, have responsibilities, be strong, etc... as society dictates, even if you have boobs, a thinner waist, and a plump ass.
(15-04-2020, 09:43 AM)Shirazmn Wrote: @Maksimovic
Sorry if I write in English. I can read French but I can't write in that language. I hope you can translate this message.
One of the topics that have been discussed the longest on this website, in many forms, is how normal/abnormal/right/wrong it os for a man to want some feminine traits, particularly breasts.
The reality is that feminine straight men exist and have always existed. What we all here try to become is nothing new. What's new with us is that we try to achieve something that other men move away from. Society says that a man can't be feminine or he is not a man, so man with breasts do surgeries yo remove them and look less like a woman so society will take them more seriously as men. I think that, in this part of the forum "males staying males" we all understand that there is more to being a man than just having a flat and muscular chest.
A lot of our family experiences rotate on the need to convince our wives and families of the same thing. You can be a man, have responsibilities, be strong, etc... as society dictates, even if you have boobs, a thinner waist, and a plump ass.
Well said, Shirazm. The last thing I would want to give up is to be there for my family. For some of us, we don't really expect to "pass" and so we realize that we are likely becoming incongruent in the eyes of the judgmental many. Soft round pegs in square holes.
[quote = "Shirazmn" pid = '210459' dateline = '1586940225'] @Maksimovic Désolé si j'écris en anglais. Je peux lire le français mais je ne peux pas écrire dans cette langue. J'espère que vous pourrez traduire ce message. L'un des sujets qui a été discuté le plus longtemps sur ce site Web, sous de nombreuses formes, est de savoir comment normal / anormal / bien / mal un homme veut certains traits féminins, en particulier les seins. La réalité est que les hommes hétéros féminins existent et ont toujours existé. Ce que nous essayons tous de devenir ici n’a rien de nouveau. Ce qui est nouveau chez nous, c'est que nous essayons de réaliser quelque chose dont les autres hommes s'éloignent. La société dit qu'un homme ne peut pas être féminin ou qu'il n'est pas un homme, alors l'homme aux seins fait des chirurgies pour les retirer et ressembler moins à une femme pour que la société les prenne plus au sérieux que les hommes. Je pense que, dans cette partie du forum "les hommes restent des hommes "nous comprenons tous que le fait d'être un homme ne se limite pas à avoir une poitrine plate et musclée. Beaucoup de nos expériences familiales tournent autour de la nécessité de convaincre nos épouses et nos familles de la même chose. Vous pouvez être un homme , avoir des responsabilités, être fort, etc ... comme le veut la société, même si vous avez des seins, une taille plus fine et un cul dodu. [/ quote]
(19-11-2019, 12:53 PM)debbieTV Wrote:(17-01-2019, 09:34 AM)Shirazmn Wrote: I know that many of us have written bits and bobs of their experience in their thread, but I'd like to have a place where we can all learn the good and the bad of having/growing boobs while remaining males and family men.
This is mostly for those that lead a normal family life with eife and kids and/or that are in a position where they are close to their relatives in every day life.
I could sum up some questions like: What's your family like? Have you grown boobs already? What did you tell them? How has this changed things?... But I'd like this space to be a bit of a brain dump where we can tell our story, ask and give advice, warn about pitfalls and so on.
I confess that I am opening this thread to help otgers and, at the same time, understand more about my own situation. I'd like to stress that this is in the Male staying Male section, and it's intended for experiences of those that have no plan of transitioning.
ive been on my breast groth journey for nearly 2 years my wife thinks i take the herbs to srink my enlarged prostrate wich is true but not the main reason i started taking PM but it defanatly has helped shrink my prostrate can pee a lot easier now .ive had a number of stops and starts on the various herbs i take . my boobs are now at a stage where they are noticable and i uasuly ask my wife befor we go out can you see my boobs in whatever i happen to be wearing she will often say you need to put a jumper over your t shirt .ive just resently noticed that the PM has started to cause meed swings and made me resentfull and angery over things i should not be getting upset about so ive stoped taking the PM at the mo. but im still taking other herbs and dont whant my bo0obs to srink .recently my wife and me had a discusion about me being moody i exsplained that it was the PM and i was going to stop taking it the good part about this is i was able to tell her i love haveing boobs and i dont whant to loose them she had no idea befor that i liked having them { she thought it was gyno caused by the herbs } and to my suprise she took it very well she knows im tv so i thought she might suspect but aparantly not .my problem now is how to hide them my nipples are very big for a guy and stick out a lot ive recently orderd some stick on nipple covers wich im hoping will hide them ive also got a compresion vest but its very hot under a shirt or jumper . family members have noticed my boobs and have comented but so far frends have not said anything at least not to my face . im not transexual and have no intension of living as a woman my crossdressing is done in private and i keep it a secret from evertyone exsept my wife .the bottom line is i dont know how things will go but i just love having boobs
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