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Hey guys,
So i have bought bb and my bf actually dont think it would work, and i'm wondering anyone had tried it before and it actually worked for them. AHh... idk what to do, my bf doesnt really care about my breast but i always wanted since the day i realize i'm gay. So it would be nice if anyone can share their experiences with me, or else i'm willing to sell it.
Thanks guys
xoxo all star
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Okay have you decided you still want to grow breasts or are you letting your boyfriend influence you?
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You should do what you feel is best for you. If your bf doesn't care about your breasts, thats his loss. If you feel the need to grow your breasts do it for you. Most of us on this forum do it because we like the look and feel of our breasts. Good luck and maybe you need to find a new bf.
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It works. Read through the threads in this section and the archives.
Good luck.
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Take care and think about what you want. Most gay men, admire men; not women. I have a pair of B cup boobs, and beleive me, they dominate your life; I look Femme, to a point, where people wonder, whether, I have had a "boob job" That is great for me; could you live with it?
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Its not my bf thats stopping me, i'm not 100 % sure because this will have a huge impact on my life, and I can only see it closing possible doors, because it's hard enough being myself some days. Ahh (sigh) its really hard to explain how i feel, its just really hard to me . I ADMIRE women so much, sometime i find them so attractive, but i never dated any women before so i'm quite sure what this means.
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booballstar, it sounds to me that you are not only confused of your identity right now but also your sexuality. I think you need to seriously just think for a week deep down and discover who you are as a whole. There are a few people on this forum and others that have been in your situation, maybe not exactly the same, but similar that I'm sure can give some insight and help. One that really comes to mind is Cheryl1989, she was a born male, who at first was a straight male that just wanted to grow breasts, had no clue why. Later he discovered himself and decided to make more changes to become the beautiful woman we know today, and she dates males now as far as I know. So maybe she can give you some insight on the more deeper subjects that you need right now. I of course cannot fully relate as I'm a born female, just have had friends in your situation on both sides of the fence. I wish you the best of luck though. And advise you think deeply for a while about who you are and go from there.
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17-03-2011, 07:37 AM
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sarahwr.)
Hi.
I'm sorry but I don't feel Cheryl can be used as your typical example of most of the male contributors on this and her web site.
She had a hormonal condition and had to make a decision.
I think she took the correct one and I believe in her situation I would have taken the same.
From my perspective it took far longer than a week to determine my sexuality; it all depends from what position you are starting from.
If I could have breasts today I would and face any consequences that the world had to offer.
There are already males out there that have breasts as a result gynecomastia.
Just my opinion.
Regards,
Sarah
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you seem very conflicted and as such, the last thing you should do is take a life changing medication, simply to go along with a fantasy. I cannot speak of Bountiful breasts, but if it is anything like PM, it's feminising effects are probably far greater, than simply producing a pair of boobs. Do you want a bigger bum, hips and thighs, together with femanine calves? Do you want a femanine stomach, where fat tends to settle below the navel. Do you want to become calmer, less interested in sex and more concerned about people and their emotions? Do you want to be seen as outside most male friendship? These are all effects of becoming femanised; unless these are outcomes you actively seek, you could be embarking on a disasterous course. Without oestrogene, no boobs; with it come all these other issues.
Last night I was groped by a transvestite, because she didn't beleive, my boobs were all me: could you happily inhabit a body, like that? Unless you want to become femanised, and feel ready to take on the challenges, that, that will bring, I would steer clear of attempting to grow breasts.
If, on the other hand, you have always felt, that you were born in the wrong gender, I would be the first to offer you support, for the sooner you confront that, the better, for your future happiness.
It reall comes down to whethe you are gay, or, do you feel you are, or should be a hetrosexual woman.
Admiring women and being attracted to them, could just be part of feeling you truly are a woman; women have great friendships and take great pleasure, in the company and friendship of other women and, as I go along the path of transition, I have truly come to understand that.
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If you get breast growth and you decide it's not for you there are options aside from surgery. If you are still in your first few months there are drugs that will prevent your breasts from growing and if caught early enough what growth you do have may shrink. There are a few drugs that a lot of bodybuilders use to stop female breast growth due to steroid use. As far as I know they all require a prescription so if you decide to do this and have a change of heart, be sure to visit a gynecomastia specialist early and request aid. Some of the drugs increase your risk of breast cancer but then again so does taking estrogen.
