Just wanted to introduce myself. Happily married, 59, Long time CD, possibly gender dysphoric. Recently diagnosed with prostate cancer (surgery next month). Oncologist put me on bicalutamide to bridge a delay between diagnosis and treatment, and it has caused a lot of old emotions to bubble up. I've been supplementing with soy isoflavones and red reishi, and seem to have gotten to an A cup pretty quickly. Worried my wife may not understand, tho. 
Llanai

Sending comfort,  hugs and good thoughts for your upcoming surgery. 
Huck

Good luck with your surgery and good luck with future path!

Thank you both for your kind thoughts.