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I'm also motivated by kink, although it took me a while to figure that out. And, like you, I've had a considerable amount of angst over just how far I want to take this and I've gone though many stops and starts. 

In the end it became clear to me that this is something that I truly want even if it means avoiding public swimming and wearing pasties to hide my nipples when wearing t-shirts in the summer. 

I've had some looks but I haven't had anyone comment on my breasts directly yet. If one of my close friends ask about it I hope I'll have to courage to be honest: This is my body, my life, I don't plan on transitioning but I do want breasts. Call me crazy but I think it looks great. It looks great on you too. 

If I'm not up to giving the honest answer then I'll probably blame it on gynecomastia.

We all have similar and yet different reasons for wanting breasts. 

I have been through many stops and starts, but most of the stop time did not last very long.  My breaks in growing my breasts have almost always come from "What will others think?".

After about 8 years of this, I have decided that I truly want breasts.

I believe that guys who do this, whether transitioning or not, really desire breasts and are willing to do just about anything to get them. This is not just a temporary phase or fetish. We are usually willing to make lifestyle changes in many areas. We make changes in our clothing to accommodate our breasts, whether to show or hide them. We change activities to our comfort levels. We often risk relationships or look for partners who will appreciate and encourage us.

I have not had anyone directly comment or ask me about my breasts. More in question for me might be someone inquiring about my wearing a bra. I guess I would handle each situation differently depending on the person asking. Either way, I don't really owe anyone an explanation.

Joey