02-01-2015, 08:49 PM
(02-01-2015, 02:30 PM)ClaraKay Wrote: For most transsexual women, passing as a woman in everyday life is so important, and for those of us who took forever to transition, quite a challenge. Successful passing means dressing and behaving like typical women of our age group. You don't want to stand out in a crowd. That doesn't mean not accentuating your best feminine features, but it does mean not drawing attention to yourself that would have people notice the remnants of masculinity that give you away. This is the biggest difference between how transwomen and cross dresser present themselves in public. A CD always has his alternate persona to fall back on when life goes back to normal everyday. The transwoman lives with her persona 24/7.If that was in response to me, I didn't mean it that way. I just meant that if you've if you've got `em, why not be proud of them? Enjoy them!! You wanted `em, you got `em, go ahead and show `em off! LET people know you got `em and that you ARE a girl!! :-) I know that if I could easily pass and then got a nice pair, I'd be VERY proud to show MINE off! Even if I was born a girl, I'm PRETTY sure that once I got a nice big pair, I'd be wearing tight tops a lot, at least for the first few years.
Kinda like if you get something you've always wanted for Christmas or a birthday, you want to show it off to your friends as SOON as you get it!! :-) I have NO qualms about Carla showing me her "designa vagina" as soon as she healed up from her SRS, I would've probably done the same thing, but, like I said, it WAS kinda like a boy showing off his new Tonka truck or G. I. Joe doll.