Well 10 days in on the P and Im still doing OK... The question now is do I stop here or just keep going with it
Side boob is definitely coming in and nipples seem a little bigger and more fem
Here's an update on my court hearing, I got my name changed
Yes right now Im unfortunately a "guy" named Eva though
I did change name and gender with SSA yesterday though, SO Im a female named Eva with them at least I went to do my passport and she was ready to do it all but decided not to yesterday... It should be no problem to get it done but it will cost $135.00 and take 4-6 weeks to get it in the mail.... SS card will come in the mail too... Gonna do that Monday and I might get a new pic, the one I got today was ok, could be better though...
DL in South Dakota SUCKS though.... I did call them and they say they need a letter proving surgery before they will change it to female
SO I dont know how it will go there, I mean I guess I can deal with the "male" on there for now BUT I need a new picture... (The M can always get scratched out due to an "accident") IF they wont change the picture I will do it and then "lose" it... Then go back with my new passport, SS card and utility bills... I will need the court order to change the name first to go that route then just present good federal ID as female .)
According to this a passport and SS card and utility bills are enough but I need the new DL # in my new name first then HOPE I can get the F on there with the federal ID
https://dps.sd.gov/licensing/driver_lice...09_004.pdf
If NONE of that works I could "move" to Colorado to my nieces or brothers wife's place "temporarily".... Long enough to get the license.... Then "move" back with everything in impeccable order but my BC... Its EASY to get it done right there with a form from the DMV my doc would fill out HRT for "permanent gender transition" is all they need, not sure if a doc in SD would be acceptable for them but if not there are GOOD docs in Denver anyway
I can change the name on my BC now, thats in the court order but NC requires proof of surgery so Im not sure Im gonna bother YET
If that gave you a headache reading it imagine how I feel
And thats just the DL... Im gonna likely have to fax or mail copy's of the court order to my brokerage, bank and CC accounts... Health, home and auto insurance... Car and house titles, concealed carry permit, ect. ect. Gonna be a PAIN IN THE ASS
Was REALLY bummed out most of the day yesterday, I'll get it done though... Feel better today... Courts and FED and state bureaucrats REALLY SUCK after all
Eva =)
Side boob is definitely coming in and nipples seem a little bigger and more fem
Here's an update on my court hearing, I got my name changed
Yes right now Im unfortunately a "guy" named Eva though
I did change name and gender with SSA yesterday though, SO Im a female named Eva with them at least I went to do my passport and she was ready to do it all but decided not to yesterday... It should be no problem to get it done but it will cost $135.00 and take 4-6 weeks to get it in the mail.... SS card will come in the mail too... Gonna do that Monday and I might get a new pic, the one I got today was ok, could be better though...
DL in South Dakota SUCKS though.... I did call them and they say they need a letter proving surgery before they will change it to female
SO I dont know how it will go there, I mean I guess I can deal with the "male" on there for now BUT I need a new picture... (The M can always get scratched out due to an "accident") IF they wont change the picture I will do it and then "lose" it... Then go back with my new passport, SS card and utility bills... I will need the court order to change the name first to go that route then just present good federal ID as female .)
According to this a passport and SS card and utility bills are enough but I need the new DL # in my new name first then HOPE I can get the F on there with the federal ID
https://dps.sd.gov/licensing/driver_lice...09_004.pdf
If NONE of that works I could "move" to Colorado to my nieces or brothers wife's place "temporarily".... Long enough to get the license.... Then "move" back with everything in impeccable order but my BC... Its EASY to get it done right there with a form from the DMV my doc would fill out HRT for "permanent gender transition" is all they need, not sure if a doc in SD would be acceptable for them but if not there are GOOD docs in Denver anyway
I can change the name on my BC now, thats in the court order but NC requires proof of surgery so Im not sure Im gonna bother YET
If that gave you a headache reading it imagine how I feel
And thats just the DL... Im gonna likely have to fax or mail copy's of the court order to my brokerage, bank and CC accounts... Health, home and auto insurance... Car and house titles, concealed carry permit, ect. ect. Gonna be a PAIN IN THE ASS
Was REALLY bummed out most of the day yesterday, I'll get it done though... Feel better today... Courts and FED and state bureaucrats REALLY SUCK after all
Eva =)