25-04-2014, 09:48 PM
(25-04-2014, 08:14 PM)ClaraKay Wrote:(25-04-2014, 07:58 PM)Heather-H Wrote: What I fear is the backlash as she is still very sensitive to my CD'ing.
Heather, dear, has your wife explained why she is against your CD? Of course, even if she has, it may not be the real reason. I think getting to the bottom of a partner's objections is the first step in overcoming resistance. Initiating a conversation for that purpose might be a start.
Clara
Hi Clara, thanks, I am delighted to hear from you. I have had many talks with my wife over the subject. Her main objection stems from her upbringing and she is unable to fully define this adequately, however, she particularly feels burdened with the knowledge that her husband dresses in feminine clothes and cannot discuss this with anyone. She did attend a psychiatric interview with me 30 years ago and found it as much use as a chocolate fire guard. I have often said that in those days these so called professionals were just starting to understand CD'ing unlike a much enlightened professional of today!
She also admits that there are periods where she feels a little more benevolent and may even donate or buy something for Heather. She freely admits that her objections may just be hormonal driven and it's at this point I recognise this is the time not to go near my fem attire.
As things stand there seems to be a fragile truce which can be broken by even the smallest lack of consideration on my part.
I won't drone on but I am delighted to hear from you.
Love
Heather XX