25-04-2014, 09:20 PM
(25-04-2014, 07:58 PM)Heather-H Wrote: Dearest Lotus, thank you for your reassurance re daily changes. I am very impatient and wish I could grow a little faster
My DW said one night when we were going to bed "are you growing your boobs" ? I didn't want to start an argument at a late hour and just laughed it off. Secretly I was so delighted as it did seem to indicate there had been an improvement to my gynecomastia.
I do feel bad about keeping it under wraps and will have to have a ' heart to heart' at some point. I am, not by nature, a deceitful type and have always been open and honest in our 45 years of marriage. What I fear is the backlash as she is still very sensitive to my CD'ing. How I approach the subject I have not a clue, I do envy you girls that have supportive and understanding wives or girlfriends.
Any advice will be most welcome, honestly ! Even if it is negatively charged
Thanks again Lotus.
Hugs
Heather XX
I have to agree with Clara. But having that eventual conversation is terrifying, not just for you but for the loved ones too. I see it as a gradual process as opposed to full disclosure though, (that's just my opinion, let them digest things slower.)
Yes, it's also known as spoon feeding (which btw, I dislike the term) however you do it is entirely up to you. And Heather, just so you know, talking about it here is a great step toward.
Please let us know how it goes, and of course!!, you know how much your loved here right?