Salania,
I guess I'll toss in my 10 cents worth here,(worth more than 2 cents since I've experience with taking the same things you say you have.) Normally I would tell someone who's been a member here for a year and a half but only spent 8 hours looking through the wealth of info here that you need to do a bit more searching in the forum. However, I'm betting that there may not be much info pertaining to your particular queries.
First, let me ask you a couple things to clear up some questions I have. You said before that your family had weight issues. does that mean that you are the exception, or that the issue is that your family is mostly comprised of people of low weight? Meaning, are you dealing with a hereditary weight issue, or are you the odd man out, so to speak?
Second, a year and a half ago, you said you were starting Ainterol PM. Does that mean you didn't get results? Or you didn't take it? Or that you started, then stopped? I understand you may be asking about the "herbal route" in general terms, but as PM is the strongest herb, if you took it for a year and a half, you should have an idea by now whether or not herbs may work for you.
Third. You said before that you take meds for asthma. Are they steroidal? While I did take some spironolactone early on, I dropped it like a hot potato when I learned more about the side effects. Not just the side effects that "may" happen, but those that were killing and nearly killing people. Just so you know, from what I can find, spironolactone has a structure very similar to steroids, and I would check with a doc to see how they interact before I took any more spiro.
Lastly, you said before that you took premarin. Now you say estradiol. Apples and oranges. Not the same. Different meds. Just need to try to keep this straight in my mind.
Whichever you took, 2 mg was nowhere near enough to effect any noticeable changes. Even in sub-lingual form. Moreso in a person such as yourself with high metabolism. I won't say anything about the spiro dosage, as I personally think you should make that go away. There are other things that are as effective, and far safer.
Did a doctor, especially knowing your medical history , prescribe these meds and dosages for you? If so, he was either extremely conservative, (maybe he didn't really want you to do it), or just didn't have enough experience to know what he was doing. Myself, I'm kinda leaning toward the possibility that you're self-medicating, like me. If so, no big deal, we just need to know.
You're 28. Probably loaded with testosterone. Between that and your metabolism, I don't know if herbs would do it for you. Others here will know more. I would think it would take large amounts of them to get anywhere. Just remember, the advice you get here is 99% non-professional. Most of us are going by our experience. Is your high metabolism a result of medical diagnosis, or is it your opinion? I'm 5'-9&1/2", 158#. The lightweight of the family, but no doctor has ever mentioned that I have anything other than normal metabolism. I'd try to lose some, but afraid it would come off places where I don't want it to.
You have your GID diagnosis. Right? That says you were interested in going at this the proper way. If you're truly still serious, I would get a doc to send you to an endocrinologist who can treat you properly, taking your medical history into account. I would expect that if you ever got a prescription for 2mg of something again, it would only be for a few weeks as a "break-in" period, and go upwards from there, until blood tests show that you have reached the necessary blood estrogen levels to actually begin changing some things. And please, stay the hell away from spiro. That's just my opinion, and may piss some others off. Then again, this has all been just my opinion, but I can fall back on experience, too. Take care, Patti