Thanks for the replys everyone!, over the few months that ive been doing the HBE ive noticed some signifigant growth, and im far more jiggly than i was prior, ive found that i now prefer to wear bras almost daily, overly sensitive nipples has also become a bit noticable, and sometimes uncomfortable if braless.
Ive handled this a few ways, on days where i know im likely to be around a co worker, i have some thinner invisible bras where they barely show unless you are the sherlock Holmes of looking for bra straps, and im pretty sure im one of the few people that do that, and thats just mainly out of curosity to see if others are like me. These are the invisible lift bras from VS, they run in larger band sizes and are really nice. If i wear those with the straps crossed so im not grabbing at my a
shoulders all day. With a ribbed tank top and t shirt over them you can hardly tell anything is out of the ordinary, and are most likely just assuming im wearing a tank.
On days where im on the road on my own, i wear a bra and cami top. Im sure they are a bit more visible under my uniform shirt but no one is really looking at people that intensely.
And some days when im feeling bold, i wear my lightly padded bras, and a cami top, its weird that i now fill up 80-90% of a b cup, and these are the most comfortable bras i own. So i love wearing them but you can definately tell that im a man wearing a bra when i do. Thankfully the days are getting colder so i can wear a sweatshirt and hide it.
I also have a push up bra that really makes them noticable, i dont think that will ever be worn on a work day, i have no reason to have all the boobs showing, not working for tips here, but i am a fan of noticing my new friends a bit more. That one will probably be a bra i wear on off days and with the wife.
To those who have the confidence to boldy show their assets i respect the hell out of you, sadly im not there yet. I grew up with far too much shame and fear of being caught crossdressing as a youth that i have to take smaller steps. And find stealthy solutions to be me, but privately.
My wife supports me in everything, when she had me switch over to panties full time 3 years ago, to wearing bras ocasionally, to now doing NBE to fill out some more feminine features to fit those cloths better, and since she is openly bisexual she even treats me a bit more feminine while being intimate. But shes pretty much where the line stops, i told my mom a while back, and though she claimed to be supportive it became clear that it was uncomfortable for her a bit later on so it was never brought up again.
So im at a point where im doing this for me, but i would prefer to not have to explain myself to everyone if questions are asked, and would much rather be stealth in my every day life than have to answer questions. Maybe one day ill have the confidence to boldly show myself unapologetically to the world, but right now im just not there. And all your tips and tricks truly are apreciated.