Hey friends,
I’m a guy—and I’ve wanted breasts for as long as I can remember.
Not because I’m transitioning, and not because I want to be someone else. I’ve just always been drawn to the softness, the fullness, the shape. For me, it’s not really about gender—it’s about balance. It’s about looking in the mirror and finally seeing a version of myself that matches the way I’ve always felt inside: whole, confident, sensual… me.
But it took me a long time to even admit that truth to myself, let alone say it out loud. For years, I kept it buried. I told myself maybe it would pass, that “guys aren’t supposed to want this.” I felt shame, confusion, and even grief for something I wasn’t sure I’d ever allow myself to have. Back then, I didn’t know of any examples of men with breast implants who weren’t transitioning. I had no roadmap and no idea if anyone would take me seriously or help me safely make it real.
But the feeling never went away. If anything, it grew stronger. Eventually, I gave myself permission to at least explore it. I researched endlessly, read every story I could find, and started asking the questions I’d been too afraid to voice. I contacted over a dozen surgeons—some didn’t understand, some dismissed me outright—but a few actually listened. And one, in particular, truly got it.
That moment—when I realized someone saw me, understood me, and didn’t flinch—was life-changing.
Deciding to move forward wasn’t easy. It was scary, vulnerable, deeply personal. I had all the fears: complications, judgment, how people would react, how it might affect my daily life. But beneath all that fear, there was something stronger: relief. Relief that I didn’t have to keep denying myself. Relief that I could finally take this huge, terrifying, beautiful step toward being fully me.
This isn’t about attention. It’s not about putting on a show. It’s about reclaiming ownership of my body, on my terms. Getting implants wasn’t the end of a journey—it was the beginning of one. I’m still learning, still healing, still growing into this new version of myself. But one thing is clear: choosing to honor what I’ve always felt inside is one of the bravest and most affirming things I’ve ever done.
I’ll be sharing more soon—about recovery, emotions, people’s reactions, all of it. But before I wrap up, I want to say this:
If you’re another guy quietly carrying this same desire, wondering if it’s “too strange,” or if you’ll ever be understood—you’re not alone. There are more of us out here than you think. And while the path isn’t always simple, it is possible. Your body is yours, your feelings are real, and your desire is valid. Don’t let shame silence you. If this is something you want, you deserve to explore it. My Reddit-r/menWBA
This is possible. And it can be yours, too.
Talk soon MnWhoHBreasts
I’m a guy—and I’ve wanted breasts for as long as I can remember.
Not because I’m transitioning, and not because I want to be someone else. I’ve just always been drawn to the softness, the fullness, the shape. For me, it’s not really about gender—it’s about balance. It’s about looking in the mirror and finally seeing a version of myself that matches the way I’ve always felt inside: whole, confident, sensual… me.
But it took me a long time to even admit that truth to myself, let alone say it out loud. For years, I kept it buried. I told myself maybe it would pass, that “guys aren’t supposed to want this.” I felt shame, confusion, and even grief for something I wasn’t sure I’d ever allow myself to have. Back then, I didn’t know of any examples of men with breast implants who weren’t transitioning. I had no roadmap and no idea if anyone would take me seriously or help me safely make it real.
But the feeling never went away. If anything, it grew stronger. Eventually, I gave myself permission to at least explore it. I researched endlessly, read every story I could find, and started asking the questions I’d been too afraid to voice. I contacted over a dozen surgeons—some didn’t understand, some dismissed me outright—but a few actually listened. And one, in particular, truly got it.
That moment—when I realized someone saw me, understood me, and didn’t flinch—was life-changing.
Deciding to move forward wasn’t easy. It was scary, vulnerable, deeply personal. I had all the fears: complications, judgment, how people would react, how it might affect my daily life. But beneath all that fear, there was something stronger: relief. Relief that I didn’t have to keep denying myself. Relief that I could finally take this huge, terrifying, beautiful step toward being fully me.
This isn’t about attention. It’s not about putting on a show. It’s about reclaiming ownership of my body, on my terms. Getting implants wasn’t the end of a journey—it was the beginning of one. I’m still learning, still healing, still growing into this new version of myself. But one thing is clear: choosing to honor what I’ve always felt inside is one of the bravest and most affirming things I’ve ever done.
I’ll be sharing more soon—about recovery, emotions, people’s reactions, all of it. But before I wrap up, I want to say this:
If you’re another guy quietly carrying this same desire, wondering if it’s “too strange,” or if you’ll ever be understood—you’re not alone. There are more of us out here than you think. And while the path isn’t always simple, it is possible. Your body is yours, your feelings are real, and your desire is valid. Don’t let shame silence you. If this is something you want, you deserve to explore it. My Reddit-r/menWBA
This is possible. And it can be yours, too.
Talk soon MnWhoHBreasts
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Thank you for sharing your feelings and journey to getting breasts which are lovely by the way. I have had feelings like you describe have always wanted breast but never the courage to get BA thought I was the only one. As long as I can remember it has been a desire- thought I was crazy to think why should only females have breasts --- 
(21-08-2025, 01:15 PM)Ninja Wrote: Thank you for sharing your feelings and journey to getting breasts which are lovely by the way. I have had feelings like you describe have always wanted breast but never the courage to get BA thought I was the only one. As long as I can remember it has been a desire- thought I was crazy to think why should only females have breasts ---
This is a completely valid and increasingly common perspective. You are certainly not alone in this thought.
I've found that within my own community—a Reddit page specifically for men who are not transitioning—there are a significant number of individuals who have breast implants, are in the process of getting them, or are actively considering the option. It's becoming clear that the desire for a larger bust is not confined to one gender, and the conversation around male body expression is evolving.
(22-08-2025, 12:22 PM)Shirazmn Wrote: It's always great to hear from you and to hear that you feel good about your decision.
You have always been incredible in giving advice and supporting people with this desire. Thank you and keep up the good work!
Thank you for your kind words. I will do my best.
Thank you for your kind words.
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