OR, they really need to get a life.  Look, there are always going to be nosy but-heads going around.  But having built quite a few web sites, and after being on the Internet from almost it's first days.  I figure if someone really wanted to check up on me, it would be pretty easy anyways.  It's not like I am running for Senate, Parliament or Savior of Human Kind, and I am not rich or famous, so there is nothing for me to fear.  Besides, maybe they would help me come out to my whole family and I would be felt sorry for that someone hacked me.  LOL...
So, Win, Win??
But, since this thread has somewhat wandered.  I will tell you how I am somewhat feminizing my face.  
I have bushy eyebrows by nature.  So, I have plucked and shaped them to a slightly more feminine shape.  Also, I have been doing side by side comparison to real women trying to get an idea of the "Ideal" shape of the face, and how they use makeup.
I have incorporated some of my idea's into when I play with makeup.  I wear light makeup a lot of times even when presenting male.  So, I am just trying to convert to an overt female look without looking like a Drag Queen in Rue Pauls Revue.  LOL    That's the tough part for me.