(15-11-2015, 04:15 PM)Ethereal Wrote: Threads like this sure do make me happy that I chose to remain single over the years. Sure it gets lonely but I also don't check with anyone else on what I can do and what I couldn't do.
There is no doubt that marriage is a partnership which requires the two partners to clearly communicate, which isn't the same as asking permission to do something. One day you may come to realize this.
(15-11-2015, 04:15 PM)Ethereal Wrote: Hell, even if I was married and she didn't like it ... well, she would get over it or get out so it's probably a good thing I'm single lol. I just can't do the submissive thing.
I'm unsure how being married equates to "I just can't do the submissive thing." Marriage is much more than the games between husband and wife.
I've been married over 30 years and there aren't many surprises anymore. A few months back I said I had been having trouble sleeping and I had to clear the air. That a few years back I took supplements to try and increase my breast size. I told her I felt the need to pursue it again, but that I thought it would be best (safer) this time to do it under a doctors guidance, meaning HRT. I said I don't plan on pulling a Caitlyn Jenner and switch genders, but I did desired breasts. She just said of course you do and she didn't understand why I lost any sleep over this. Like it wasn't a surprise only a matter of time.
I had also just loss a 100 lbs so I decided to wear a bra when not sleeping with small inserts (about a A cup) and see how it goes presenting as a male with small breasts. About this time she bought me some smaller shirts (size medium) since most of mine were still size XLT. I figured if asked I could write off the presentation to gynecomastia from the previous weight, which just started showing because of the smaller shirts. After wearing a bra consistently (whenever not sleeping) I came to the conclusion no thought it was gynecomastia, no one wanted to know why and ultimately that no one cared if I had breasts or not. Since presenting as a male with small breasts is acceptable I set up an appointment for HRT on the 28th of November. We'll see how things go then.
All I'm saying is marriage can be amazing.