That really makes me appreciate my wife! There might be a tinny little bit of "Bi" in my wife (hard to tell, she was brought up Catholic) but I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have chosen me had she known I was transgender and almost certainly not had she known I'd one day want to grow breasts and have SRS. There was no deception by the way - I knew I wanted to be a girl but had no idea how intense it would get later in life. Despite her physical preferences, she stands by me to this day. I think we love each other so much we can overlook the physical aspects now. If fact, we were talking about what has drawn us so close in the last couple years and, among other things, GD was mutually agreed on as one of the top 3.
(18-06-2014, 03:56 AM)kari leigh Wrote: That really makes me appreciate my wife! There might be a tinny little bit of "Bi" in my wife (hard to tell, she was brought up Catholic) but I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have chosen me had she known I was transgender and almost certainly not had she known I'd one day want to grow breasts and have SRS. There was no deception by the way - I knew I wanted to be a girl but had no idea how intense it would get later in life. Despite her physical preferences, she stands by me to this day. I think we love each other so much we can overlook the physical aspects now. If fact, we were talking about what has drawn us so close in the last couple years and, among other things, GD was mutually agreed on as one of the top 3.
Kari, I could have written the same words about my wife. We both are very fortunate.
Clara
Well I guess 'IAmWeird' and I are going to be limited with our choices of who will love us for who we are... Guess it'll just be a difficult journey.
Well honestly a lot of us girls don't know because its never happened to us I am the sort of person who really likes to try different things but I am in love with a very masculine man so that's my idea of a perfect man because he's the only man im attracted to but if he ever changes his looks he will still be perfect to me.
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(21-06-2014, 12:05 AM)Jordyn Michelle Wrote: Well I guess 'IAmWeird' and I are going to be limited with our choices of who will love us for who we are... Guess it'll just be a difficult journey.
Now, Jordyn, I understand where you're coming from (big surprise, right?
), but that's not why I started the thread. (And, I'm also not denying you have a point, and I'm not trying to call you out, just trying to explain why I started the thread.)First off, it's true that *everyone* has a limited choice of who will love then as they are, right? (And, it's indeed true that some folks have a more limited choice than others.)
Second, just as we TGs have preferences and wish to have them honored, please don't take offense when some GGs are open with us about their preferences.
Finally, the reason I started the thread was to give us some insights as to how some GGs feel, and that, specifically some didn't have an issue, which I thought would be good news!
There are many women who are interested in TGs. For those who are single the challenge is finding them.
I will admit I wasn't worried about why the thread was made as I understand everyone is entitled to their opinions. Personally for me going though a divorce it is just more evident to me that becoming single again it's going to be very difficult to find someone who loves me for who I am. Even before my issues have come up I had a difficult time dating. I guess time will tell what I'm allowed to have in life.
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