[Prissyme]

This is something which unfortunately we need to endure and to an extent ignore. When pervs search they will find chats or forums which they think will satisfy their need for sexual releif so will post or troll, it happens all of the time and has become more frequent. I was very active here but had my issues with certain people so now only return rarely as I still see this forum as the ultimate resource for advice on all matters concerning feminisation, it's the holy grail.
BUT active on a support chat for trans or CD I have also seen over there during the few years the transition from members who offer support, friendship, understanding and ... yes a fun chat to bieng one of bieng abused by pervs or trans haters, but only a heavily moderated place can keep the harmony but there is a difference between power hungry mods or those who are us and friends too and protect. BN will always be home, my birthplace, my fem side was born here although it's rare that I will post I emvarrasingly messed that up but it's still a place worth coming back to and I do beleive it is protected and safe.

[Prissyme]

Okay i feel i need to elaborate.
I don't judge or compete, whether I'm chatting to a trans girl or a crossdresser we are all seeking contact and support, this is a lonely place we have put ourselves in at times and there is a need for approval, understanding and acceptance. We find our place, our safe place but its online and may be subject to abuse. There will always be those who think that there is something wrong with us, either we adjust our bodies  through the use of hormones or some can't because of health problems or family issues so do the best they can but we are the same. There will ALWAYS be those who think we are desperate, we are begging for it, that we only do what we do out of perversion and they will search, find and assume ... wrongly of course.
What they don't know is that what we are doing isn't for them, we aren't doing what we do for anybody but just for ourselves. It's personal, it's intimate, it's us! It's not to be a sex doll for the weird, they think that is our motivation im sure of that now but we aren't.