@stevenator_ you are right about "too much info" on how to masturbate, but changes in nipples sensitivity, skin sensitivity, sex drive, and feelings during orgasm are well documented side effects of the hormones and herbs used for breast growth. I don't think you can expect people not to talk about their erogenous zones when breasts are involved. Also, sperm colour and texture are two factors to take into consideration while doing NBE or HRT to judge if there is any damage to fertility. Lastly, penis shrinking is also an effect connected with taking hormones.
I do fully agree that knowing every detail about one's masturbation is "too much information", as also is to actually post pictures of primary sexual characteristics.
@HelloDiDi I agree 100% on the "staying on topic" and on the keeping one's information, and mostly pictures, on their own personal threads. This is one of those things where I would really shoot a warning on first offence and a red card on the second offence. Spamming and cross-posting unsolicited pictures should be punished hard.
The conversation about language on this website goes around every once in a while, frequently shifting with the sensitivity (or lack of) of new users VS sensitivity of existing users VS newly acquired sensitivity of some users. Years and years ago, a user told me off in every possible way because on this forum I used the word "tits", saying that it was disrespectful to her because she had recently transitioned MtF and now she had realised that only women have the right to call them "tits". So, yes, personal sensitivities change, but I still don't think that the whole forum's language should necessarily change accordingly.
(As history has proven, many people are still using the word "tits" around here, and that user has now left to join some more gender-binary trans community)
I do fully agree that knowing every detail about one's masturbation is "too much information", as also is to actually post pictures of primary sexual characteristics.
@HelloDiDi I agree 100% on the "staying on topic" and on the keeping one's information, and mostly pictures, on their own personal threads. This is one of those things where I would really shoot a warning on first offence and a red card on the second offence. Spamming and cross-posting unsolicited pictures should be punished hard.
The conversation about language on this website goes around every once in a while, frequently shifting with the sensitivity (or lack of) of new users VS sensitivity of existing users VS newly acquired sensitivity of some users. Years and years ago, a user told me off in every possible way because on this forum I used the word "tits", saying that it was disrespectful to her because she had recently transitioned MtF and now she had realised that only women have the right to call them "tits". So, yes, personal sensitivities change, but I still don't think that the whole forum's language should necessarily change accordingly.
(As history has proven, many people are still using the word "tits" around here, and that user has now left to join some more gender-binary trans community)
Agreed, again agreed and there's a lot to be said about language. Its important because language shapes ideas and attitudes, but being overly sensitive about it could be too much. Like for example how I had to censor my username here when I first joined. Its supposed to be HelloTitty but I was told it might be offensive to some users which felt weird so I modified a bit and have kept it since.
Like huh? Weird? Obvious slurs being used in an objectifying pervy manner is disgusting, but we don't see that done here much at all. If it were, I would absolutely jump on it because I have zero tolerance for bigotry or misogyny. Mostly just random use of what ever words isn't doing any real damage though. Interestingly, I feel more at home here than in most trans only spaces because BN is more tolerant and open minded. And the reason often is that my old school and binary ideas aren't tolerated elsewhere, let alone my thinking of how dysphporia works and what I think about medical transition and so on. No one has called me out on BN for being evil transmedicalist truscum which is awesome.
I can absolutely see it why most trans women leave the forum at some point, I've had the feeling of not belonging some times, but I've promised to stick around for breast growing science and closeted trans women who need a sister to help them out. I feel that our diversity is why this forum is awesome, and the focus on what makes boobs and overall body feminisation tick. Trans spaces and fetish spaces are many and all over the place, BN forum is unique.
Like huh? Weird? Obvious slurs being used in an objectifying pervy manner is disgusting, but we don't see that done here much at all. If it were, I would absolutely jump on it because I have zero tolerance for bigotry or misogyny. Mostly just random use of what ever words isn't doing any real damage though. Interestingly, I feel more at home here than in most trans only spaces because BN is more tolerant and open minded. And the reason often is that my old school and binary ideas aren't tolerated elsewhere, let alone my thinking of how dysphporia works and what I think about medical transition and so on. No one has called me out on BN for being evil transmedicalist truscum which is awesome.
I can absolutely see it why most trans women leave the forum at some point, I've had the feeling of not belonging some times, but I've promised to stick around for breast growing science and closeted trans women who need a sister to help them out. I feel that our diversity is why this forum is awesome, and the focus on what makes boobs and overall body feminisation tick. Trans spaces and fetish spaces are many and all over the place, BN forum is unique.
I've not liked the recent increase in what I think is essentially erotic, over-sexualised descriptive stuff and pics, which personally I'd prefer not to see.
I deal with by passing on by it or if it is on my post/a response to one of my posts, I simply dont respond to it.
Clearly what I define as over-sexualised will be very different to lots of others, so I accept there will be some of it on here.
But like you have said Lara, it's a fantastic non-judgemental space and long may it stay that.
It would be nice to think that people stopped and asked themselves.... Is the post about the science of breast / butt growth / body feminisation?
If so post away, if anything more than that, stick it in the appropriate section please.
But as said above, I fully appreciate that everyone has their own definitions, so lets stay tolerant, but do remind anyone who is seemingly pushing the barriers.
I deal with by passing on by it or if it is on my post/a response to one of my posts, I simply dont respond to it.
Clearly what I define as over-sexualised will be very different to lots of others, so I accept there will be some of it on here.
But like you have said Lara, it's a fantastic non-judgemental space and long may it stay that.
It would be nice to think that people stopped and asked themselves.... Is the post about the science of breast / butt growth / body feminisation?
If so post away, if anything more than that, stick it in the appropriate section please.
But as said above, I fully appreciate that everyone has their own definitions, so lets stay tolerant, but do remind anyone who is seemingly pushing the barriers.
This post was last modified: 22-08-2024, 07:46 PM by wee2er.
or, we could use the report button.............. 
Who's saying it hasn't been used? Things would get very different if we had active mod team over here.
Things would get very different if we had active mod team over here.
Just to give an example of my hard limits, in the "Adult only" section there is a thread called "Are you a sissy?" Which contains stuff not very much related to breast growth. The images in there have already been spammed around the forum in other threads, and I think that it confuses "Adult" with "Porn".
That's a piece of content that would fit really well on Fetlife, but not at all in here.
That's a piece of content that would fit really well on Fetlife, but not at all in here.
(24-08-2024, 07:51 AM)Shirazmn Wrote: Just to give an example of my hard limits, in the "Adult only" section there is a thread called "Are you a sissy?" Which contains stuff not very much related to breast growth. The images in there have already been spammed around the forum in other threads, and I think that it confuses "Adult" with "Porn".
That's a piece of content that would fit really well on Fetlife, but not at all in here.
I think so too, there are better suited platforms for such topics.
I notice both trash can and adult only subforums deleted or set on admin only, great. I'm happy to see this change. Trash can, for why should we read troll posts and bullshit anyway? All that is worthless and ripe for deletion. And "adult only", a friend said it so well, what part of BN forum is not an adult forum? That subforum was only used as a get out of jail free card, an excuse for pervs and creeps to post creepy shit that doesn't contribute anything to the forum. I'm so happy to see that cesspit cleaned away. Please let it stay that way, we're already +18 forum no matter what.
And what comes to posting pictures and such, I stay put with use your fucking brain with it. Its not difficult. The advice I gave about it, using external picture hosting site, then posting a tex link only with a trigger warning is perfect way to deal with NSFW pictures which do not fall under the usual progress pics we post every day. Some times showing more than usual is appropriate as part of hormonal body modification or transitioning... But goddammit use your mother fucking brain on what and how to post, its not difficult.
For example, when I get SRS, and or if I get orchi before it, I might start a new thread and share post op pictures as there are plenty of trans women on here who are likely to look forward to SRS and would like to see results. Same with recent breast augmentation pics, not everybody likes to see gnarly fresh plastic surgery wounds which are still healing. Its not difficult to make that kind of pics "non porn brained show off" and use text link as a kind of spoiler tag.
Btw, spoiler tags for pictures would be awesome addition to the forum itself, I dunno if that's possible with this current platform?
One anecdote about treating others the way you want to be treated and a word about respect to wrap this up. Its true, respect is not given, its earned and each mother fucking fetish troll who behaves like crap, pushes posters away into lurking or leaving, misgenders and insults regulars on purpose and uses even avatar pictures to troll even more, is not worth any kind of respect. That's worth a ban more than anything.
Treating others the right way, that shouldn't be hard, just basic decency? Not difficult at all. The way to show respect here and treat the community the way you want to be treated is to behave nice and contribute something worthy of discussion.
And what comes to posting pictures and such, I stay put with use your fucking brain with it. Its not difficult. The advice I gave about it, using external picture hosting site, then posting a tex link only with a trigger warning is perfect way to deal with NSFW pictures which do not fall under the usual progress pics we post every day. Some times showing more than usual is appropriate as part of hormonal body modification or transitioning... But goddammit use your mother fucking brain on what and how to post, its not difficult.
For example, when I get SRS, and or if I get orchi before it, I might start a new thread and share post op pictures as there are plenty of trans women on here who are likely to look forward to SRS and would like to see results. Same with recent breast augmentation pics, not everybody likes to see gnarly fresh plastic surgery wounds which are still healing. Its not difficult to make that kind of pics "non porn brained show off" and use text link as a kind of spoiler tag.
Btw, spoiler tags for pictures would be awesome addition to the forum itself, I dunno if that's possible with this current platform?
One anecdote about treating others the way you want to be treated and a word about respect to wrap this up. Its true, respect is not given, its earned and each mother fucking fetish troll who behaves like crap, pushes posters away into lurking or leaving, misgenders and insults regulars on purpose and uses even avatar pictures to troll even more, is not worth any kind of respect. That's worth a ban more than anything.
Treating others the right way, that shouldn't be hard, just basic decency? Not difficult at all. The way to show respect here and treat the community the way you want to be treated is to behave nice and contribute something worthy of discussion.
This post was last modified: 06-01-2025, 12:06 PM by Heaven's Night.
The Adult Section is gone ???
HALLE-FUCKING-LUJAH !!!
HALLE-FUCKING-LUJAH !!!
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