driving licence and passport are female along with all my other documentation so I guess that says it all lol.

Even when I am in male mode which is not very often

When I just read this I was like WOW!!!

so all your documents are changed over but you still do Male mode!???? for me that`s inconceivable! not just because I look ridiculous dressed as a man now, but I couldn`t stand to let anyone see me like that, even just thinking about it starts off a whole whirlpool of negative feelings towards a panic attack.
You`re one brave lady for sure! I totally couldn`t do it anymore. xx

I don't give enough of a shit to care really.
Mostly because I grew up with people having a 50/50 chance of guessing my gender, still do get it wrong if I get a good shave.