[MonikaT]

I wish I had advice to offer. I've been lucky. I've always brought up the issue of my cross dressing either before or after the first date. Some women decided not to date me, others were okay with it. Unfortunately, the ones who were okay with it seemed to be more into it than I am, often asking me to get all dressed up when I wasn't in the mood to do so. As many of you know, to do it right takes a lot of time when one's body hair is thicker than Chewbacca's.