[Samantha Rogers]

Sarah, honey, you just need to meet the right person...I don't think, in your case, anymore than in most, if people are really honest and unswayed by preconceived arbitrary notion, that the gender will be as important as the look in their eyes, their heart, if they make you laugh, and also, if they really, honestly make you feel loved and wanted. The rest will take care of itself.
..... although there really is something to be said for unattached peni...yeah... gotta give you that one...LOL
Oh, and rich...rich helps a lot, too...tee hee