07-02-2014, 10:43 AM
There is no easy way to tell your SO that you want to wear women's clothing. My wife found my hidden wardrobe while doing spring cleaning one day. I was at work at the time and came home to a very scared, confused, anxious loved one.
Just be honest. And realize the conversation will not go in your way. You will be the bad guy and change whatever future she holds in her mind of the two of you. In time hopefully that image will adjust and she'll be excepting. But you should let her set the time and limits on cross-dressing.
There are lots of great resources here to help you. Explore the site some more.
And to be completely honest here. She made, well, suggested I dump my wardrobe. So I did. But I ended up buying three bras later on anyway. Nothing fancy, just some sport bras and camis that could easily be worn under a button down shirt. And those are stuffed way back behind male my T-shirts.
Just be honest. And realize the conversation will not go in your way. You will be the bad guy and change whatever future she holds in her mind of the two of you. In time hopefully that image will adjust and she'll be excepting. But you should let her set the time and limits on cross-dressing.
There are lots of great resources here to help you. Explore the site some more.
And to be completely honest here. She made, well, suggested I dump my wardrobe. So I did. But I ended up buying three bras later on anyway. Nothing fancy, just some sport bras and camis that could easily be worn under a button down shirt. And those are stuffed way back behind male my T-shirts.