07-02-2014, 05:04 AM
(07-02-2014, 04:23 AM)Samantha Rogers Wrote: Well, here is a question, since this is a board where we share our secrets. Who. among us believes their relationship with their mother may have somethin to do with their crossdressing and feminizing.
I have some thoughts on this but would like to hear some other comments before sharing my own. Who's first ... ?
To be honest, I don't think my mom had an active role with my crossdressing or feminizing. If anything, I would say she played a more indirect role of not trying to encourage me to engage in masculine pursuits or dissuade me from partaking in feminine activities. She recognized I was a sensitive and quiet child, and she didn't want to push me to be someone I was not. When my mom finally found out about my crossdressing, I was already an adult and not living at home. She doesn't condemn me from being a crossdresser, but I think it's something she would rather keep out of sight and out of mind.
The one female relative who I would say had an influence with me being feminine was my sister.
For instance, I don't remember how it happened, but somehow my sister got me to wear one of her frilly rainbow dresses when I was a small child. I didn't like how she teased me for wearing a dress, but it's otherwise a special memory for me. 

