[Miranda-nata-est]

I really don't know how to answer this poll - it is hard enough trying to define my own gender without attempting to rationalise those I am attracted to.....


Ten years ago (ish) , it would have been more simple (although possibly not absolute even then) - I was attracted to Females full stop.

About this time though, my wife and and I dipped our toes extremely lightly in the swinging scene - we only ever met two couples although the friendships continued for some time. One of these couples had an orally Bi male and after copious quantities of red wine and when all four up together, things happened which were totally off the radar ... yet I enjoyed the whole experience of Bi Oral - giving and receiving.

This raised some serious questions in my mind as to my sexuality which may have been previously dormant.

I thrive on new experiences, particularly regarding sex and knowing this, I don’t know if I have gay tendencies or just hedonistic tendencies.

I went through a spell some couple of years ago of watching shemale and even gay sex and found it a real turn on - but in solitary mode only and this is certainly not where the real highs are to be found for me.

It has been proven that given the right circumstances, I can very happily enjoy sex with a male - does that make me gay? would I go seeking this sort of relationship, probably not - yet I cannot be absolutely sure about this.

Nowadays, if I watch porn at all, it tends to be female/female or female/shemale lactation videos - I don't mean the contrived cheap sex ones - there are a few out there where you watch what certainly appears to be true love in the eyes of the participants.

I love my wife, I love sex with my wife - we often play with female toys as it takes the pressure off me - but when the moment is right, the sparks fly as we become one - this is the real high - physical love with the one you love. Those moments when she is lying across me sucking my developing boobs and looking at me with love in her eyes are unbeatable!!!

So I am sorry I cannot answer your poll - it is difficult to be honest within the choices available.

Cheers

David
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