[GoneGirl]

And if you've never tried it, enter your SO missionary position, then work it to where your penis is still in her, but you are the one straddling and riding her OR have her on top of you, then work it to where you are still inside her and she is thrusting into you missionary style!

Oh yes, Scotti. That works for me very well. Anytime she is on top, I feel a rush of excitement. Unfortunately, the geometry is a little off for her to perform male-like thrusting when she's on top. She normally straddles me in an upright position and rocks back and forth. I think it's taking the submissive role that is such a turn on for me. She also likes to lay on top of me and grind her clit into my thigh when I'm just not up to the male thing. I find it exciting and satisfying to know that she is achieving orgasm, even if I don't.

I'm sure that if I was homosexual, or if I had sex with a transsexual woman, I'd be the 'bottom' every time. The T-girl has to be very feminine looking for it to work for me.

Samantha, I too have difficulty cumming from a blow job. It has happened on occasion though, and I always feel kind of guilty about it. It has to be something that I know my woman is desirous of. I always feel better about sex if my woman has an orgasm than not, and I work hard to make it happen. More of a womanly attitude, don't you think?

CK